MammaClaus

About MammaClaus

What am I looking for? I am looking for women who submit. It really doesn’t matter if you are looking for a sensual woman, a strict Lady or a strong Mistress as I do have interest in any of these roles. I do have a small group of possible play-partners so, with my small collection of toys, I will have someone to play with the more extreme aspects. You must be able to share as I do have another wonderful but vanilla woman in my life as well as those play partners. Anything else will be talked about and talking we will do. I will not jump into a D/s or M/s relationship as I’m not desperate.

I am looking for FRIENDS of either sex, any gender identification, D/s or M/s status. If you wish to be my friend or are already a friend, please drop me a line from time to time.
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I am a trans-woman but be aware that the term 'trans' is no more important than the fact that I have ten toes. It is a term that helps describe me. Other terms are blonde, blue eyed, 6 foot (182 cm), etc. However I'm described, I'm all woman where it counts.

The second thing you need to know is that I am a Dominant woman. I use the title Domme and I usually get the courtesy that goes with it. Courtesy is not the same as respect as respect is something that is earned. So, if you don't know me please take the time to learn more about me and that respect will develop over time. I believe I've gained that respect from many kinksters in the local area and I'm sure it's because I talk about what I know, listen when I don't and not afraid to ask questions to deepen my understanding. I'm sure this is good advice for anyone. However, there have been occasions where I’ve put my foot in my mouth so I’m not perfect either.

I was asked if I had any fetishes. While I have many interests the only fetish I have is with rope. I find the act of tying someone up to be very sensual as it certainly requires the cooperation of the one being bound. That and it takes time, time in which I can appreciate the closeness to the partner I’m with at that moment. And I love tying knots. I’d really like to get into suspension bondage but I’ll need some mentoring for that. My knot tying skill is higher than the norm but I still have a lot to learn.

Other than kink, one of the many things I'm working on is expressing my femininity. I've always had many characteristics that define femininity such as gentleness, patience, sensitivity, kindness, openness, and nurturing. Until I started transitioning I could not express them fully. Now I can.

But those characteristics are not visual and many people are. My outward dressing now reflects what I've always known I was. So if you see me at a munch I will always be dressed in skirts/dresses and heels. There is a lot more to me than femininity but right now it's high on my list of things to work on.

My lifestyle friends have called me beautiful, a Lady, a classy Lady, a cool Lady, (but not Grand Dame yet) etc. and I appreciate all their comments. Okay, my mirror tells me not to believe the beautiful comment but we all have different ideas as to what we think of as beauty. I do my best to be lady-like, both in the way I dress and the way I treat others. I firmly believe that how you treat others is a measure of how you will be viewed by those in your community – be it kink or vanilla.

As I've indicated I was born with the parts that would normally tell the doctor that I was male. He was very wrong and, in some ways, it's messed up my life. I'm not sure if I screamed because he swatted my butt or when he said "It's a boy!" Okay, I didn't know __that__ early but it wasn't long after I knew something was wrong. I was 8 years young when I knew I was given the wrong sex.

I admit that before I started transitioning I had a submissive nature. I'm now sure that it was my way of punishing myself for being the wrong sex. The moment I 'came out' to the medical people as a trans-woman there was a huge weight that was removed from my shoulders and, with it, all desire to be submissive disappeared.