9/27/2016 9:00:28 PM

This site is frustrating. On the one hand you have Dom's that want your trust but when you are 100% truthful they can't take it and want to run. The other hand you have submissives sending you messages and again when you are 100% truthful they get more attached. What the hell? Its like the twilight zone

4/11/2016 7:55:54 PM

I was off this site for a couple of months because of all the discouraging and disappointing messages. Too many Control freaks and pathetic horny men. Sad that fools think that because you say your a Dom or put 'Master' so and so, as your profile name, subs will automatically bow down and open their legs for you. Makes me laugh, what a joke. This site is sadly comical. I'm not here for sex. I broke it off with a vanilla man that I was dating and that was the best fucking lover I ever had. He Knew all my spots, made me squirt each and every time and made me slip into a deep euphoria just by fucking me hard or making slow sweet love to me. Yet he did all that but it wasn't enough. Yes the sex was amazing and his cock was divine but without everything else it means nothing. That euphoric feeling only takes you but so far. Yes he treated me like a princess and respected who I am but he could not be the man I needed. If you can't come to me with respect and dignity. If you show weakness and desperation. If you are ignorant and belligerent. If you think to be a real Dom you need to fuck whomever you can and treat women like shit because that's how you deal with fear. YOU ARE NOT FOR ME. Strength exudes from those that have real power. They don't need to convince anyone with words that they have control and can control. Only scared little men and women do that. If you can't even handle your life you can never handle someone else's so please don't call yourself Master. You are master of nothing be caused you haven't mastered anything.

9/7/2015 8:28:59 PM

This is becoming so disappointing. You either find a Dom that wants a relationship but never makes a first meet or the Dom you have met several times, wants to collar you but not claim you. Freaking ridiculous. Beginning to wonder if there are really any Doms on this site as well. You can talk a good talk but know nothing about training a sub. You don't know how to be true to yourself, how can you be true to anyone else. You can't get your life together but you think you can control someone else's life. Tired of the boys.

8/30/2015 5:17:53 PM

Had an amazing impromptu scene with a Master and his slave. I had played with His slave before and it was amazing then also, should've known that with her hands caressing me and her boobs on my back after her Master whipped and caned me that I would come to orgasm that fast and head deep into space. Great night all around, even got intense cuddle time after a nice round of OTK spanking with an ex Daddy Dom that remains a true friend.

8/14/2015 7:23:13 AM

My last meet up with a prospective Dom went quite well but it made me realize how much that first meet means to me. This man that day in front of me was being scrutinized. His words, his mannerisms, his facial expressions, his nervous ticks, the way he took in the world around him. In that two hour date I grabbed so much more information than all the small talk we had in text and chatting. It made me realize that I need to change the way I do things. Messages sent to me with the casual conversation waste my time. I want to know what you will give me as a Dom. What you expect from me. Don't bullshit because it lowers who you are and lowers the chances of a relationship. A first meet is the most important turning point and will have to take place within a months time of the initial message. If you are looking for a weak and feeble minded woman, best you move on. My turn offs are arrogance and ignorance. A Dom is rare to find on this site because there are so many posers and fakes so I have also decided to not entertain any messages from "Doms" that have never attended a munch or visited a Dungeon. I have no time for games, my need to serve is too great. Other things that make me laugh or Doms that live with their parents or ex. If you can't handle your own financial responsibilities and take control of your own life as a MAN how could you think to be a Dom? I am not everyone's Submissive, I will not respect just anyone. That makes my service to my Dom that much more meaningful.

7/26/2015 12:03:53 PM

7/26/2015 It's been quite a bit since any play and it's times like this that make me dislike not being owned and claimed. I'm horny but not just for sex. When I get like this and my pussy craves I don't think of cock. I don't think I'm that abnormal there must be others like me. I am craving to be over someone's knee. To feel the hard slap to my bum. To feel their hand caress my bum once it begins to heat up and hurt. I am craving the feel of the flogger as it caresses my back and bum. I want the sting that it leaves. I want the pain that makes me wet and weak. I am craving the feel of the belt as it lashes out and makes my skin come alive. I want to feel the leather bounce off my back and delight in the burning sensations after each strike. Yes I want to be fucked hard but only after my body can experience the glorious orgasm I have from the most exquisite pain. Without that I might as well just masturbate, that way I can get myself off better than any man ever could. I don't need a cock. Honestly I could just stick a dildo in if that's all I needed. It would be faster and less stressful. But... I don't need just some thing to gyrate on. I need a full Dominant man that knows how to satisfy ALL my needs and wants. Damn... this sucks.

7/20/2015 9:46:10 AM

7/20/2015 Slave & Dom Auction at the dungeon After much thought I got the courage to put myself on the block. I arrived to the dungeon right on time for the Auction but stayed back, hidden waiting to see what it would be like. Two slave girls helped the MC by walking the slave around while the bids flew. I was nervous but when the House Domme finally saw me I had no other option but go up to the block. At first I remained hidden in my black trench coat showing only a little of me. The bids started coming in and when the House Domme told me I had to take the coat off completely, I did as told. More bids came, making me the highest paid for slave but then a play partner I had scenes with before stated loudly that I make the most delicious noises, more bids came in. I was happy that the highest bid came from someone I knew but had never played with. The scene was incredible because his deep voice made me shiver, it was the first time he flogged anyone but he knew how to look for the signs and took my limits into consideration. He continued to be verbal with me just making sure I was okay. When my body began to tremble he slowly uncuffed me and gently walked me to the sofa. I was sweating but I was cold and he covered me and held me until I stopped trembling and came back. His sub gave me water and made sure her Dom had what he needed to give me the aftercare I needed. It had been a long time since I played at the dungeon but now again I'm looking forward to returning. I wasn't able to bottom for everyone that requested my time but I did get what I needed and was missing.

7/3/2015 9:17:56 PM

7/3/2015 Well attended another munch. How many friends can a girl have. I go to these functions hoping to find a Dom that is not only looking for a sub but who is monogamous. Instead I get Dommes and Doms alike that want to add me to their harem or take me through a session. Upsetting thing is that supposedly I am 'under consideration' which means zilch to me. I am either the sub you want or not. Don't string me along and assume that I will stop looking because I might, just might be what you want. The whole time you consider me you continue to ask other 'subs' for sexy pics. So tired of boys and their stupid games. So I continue on this search for a dominant who is actually a part of this lifestyle. Knows how to control not only himself but another person. A man that knows that the masochist side of me needs to be taken care of.

6/26/2015 11:13:25 PM

6/26/2015 Coming close to a second meet with a Dom that lives a couple of states away. Yes, I still have some reservations but am hoping I can get past some of these feelings. I know if this relationship becomes anymore serious distance will be a big issue. There is also the trust thing I Need to get over. I hope this works out I am giving it my best but until he claims me publicly as His, I don't know how much of me I will give. I also need to hope he can feed the masochist in me.

5/6/2015 6:40:28 AM

5/6/15 So... Two more relationships gone. I can not keep a vanilla relationship going. They don't understand me no matter how much I explain what it is I need. I need a Dom, this is not a game for me. I can easily tell when a man can't handle me. Can't control me. It's not that I am not submissive or subservient enough, it's that they are too weak. I was brought up with a feminist mindset, my adult life that I have lived I had to be very independent. I hate showing weakness but at the same time I want to serve, I want to submit. The air I breathe is not enough. I realize many men are here are playing games. I'm so tired of being tested by fools. Yes I am real. I am not a woman wanting to play sub. I enjoy evenings at the dungeon for impact play but it is only part of what I want and need. I don't know what else to say, feel like I'm going in circles.

3/18/2015 6:12:48 PM

3/18/2015 Saddened that I have been active in this lifestyle for three years but there are still only three types of men on the sites I'm on. 1. The liar: the man, I use that term loosely who is and has never been a Dom. He is basically a pathetic little boy in a mans body that is ruled by his dick. He cheats on his mate, lover, 'sub' and thinks his dick is so magnificent that just by being in its presence you should bow to him. 2. The poly guy: great person he may very well be but when a female says she is monogamous it really does mean that she is monogamous. She is not interested in joining your harem or helping you collect other female slaves. Monogamous is not only a choice but a way of life. My capability, limitation and my preference and I will go even further and say my turn on is a Man that wants one woman. Any nasty little boy can stick his dick in every hole he can find but a MAN that can control his desires enough to be all to the woman (sub) that will give him everything he desires is a rare find. That man is a fantasy and dream come true. 3. The long distant Dom/ Master: call me needy, but I need to be physically close to my Dom. I need the physical. I realize This 'lifestyle' is much more than the physical but I can not self discipline, I am tired of self loving, I refuse to continue visiting the dungeon to bottom for Doms to feed my masochist side. I need not want someone within an hours reach. I want to be able to feel him close to me more than once a month or year. If I need disciplining I need it done by his hands. I need to feel his hand caress me when I have pleased him and to hear him whisper in my ear that I am his good girl. I have tried an online relationship with a experienced Master and I have tried a relationship with a Sensual Daddy Dom that could only visit me once a month, they didn't work. Both were wonderful but it didn't work for me. When I dropped, there was no one there to help me through. I know what I need and refuse to get involved with someone I can never build a LTR with.

3/12/2015 5:58:23 PM

3/12/2015 I had taken down my profile for a bit for several reasons. 1. Had met someone that I actually thought might be the Dom that could train me. 2. Was tired of getting messages from men that only wanted to see naked pics and talk dirty on the phone or waste time sexting. 3. I NEED real time, I can't do online relationships. It doesn't work. How can I serve someone I can't see, how can I be disciplined if you aren't there to correct me, how will my masochistic side be satisfied? 4. Men didn't take me seriously. 5. There is a extreme shortage of Doms that can actually dominate and who are experienced in RT on this site. I know not many have the gift to be a Dom nor do many take time to evolve but I need the one man. 6. Too many couples, females, kinksters, male subs sent me messages. I AM A SUBMISSIVE. I AM MONOGAMOUS I AM NOT INTERESTED IN BEING ANYONES SWITCH OR DOMME.