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Male Switch, 29, chicago, Illinois
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About MalikinDetroy
I am a Dominant man who is looking for a submissive to be my friend, my companion, my lover. I am very interested in getting to know someone even before I begin to talk about play and sexual desires. I need someone to know who I am as much as I need to know who she is.
I have been through a lot in my life. As I see it now, I am trying to live more for the moment. I try to stay out of the past and do not dwell on the future. I want to give all that I am to now, especially to someone I love. I especially like to look into a woman's eyes while she is smiling, for in that moment, I can see more of who she is than any words can say.
I am into art, I sculpt and draw. I am a writer, of many different subjects. I am a cook, culinary trained at Pennsylvania Culinary Institute. I also graduated form Lehigh University. I love to learn and never really get bored doing so. I also love to cook with someone, creating a meal together, for each other.
There are many other activities I am into as well. Hiking, camping, rock climbing. I love to play Paintball. I did some training as a fighter, looking for a local gym to sign on to to help train the younger guys. Having worked with Special Forces, hand to hand, I have a lot to give. Discipline is a good thing, I am striving to get more into my life.
Being more disciplined allows me to make my days efficient. The more free time I have, the more devoted I can be to my lover. Time to watch movies, to be together, to enjoy life.
I want to enjoy life and I look for serious responses. You can also look me up elsewhere.
After some serious thought, I have an addition to this: I am looking for a real commitment. I am looking for a woman is wants an "us" relationship, real give and take. I do Not want it to be all about me, or all about her. I want to be two people making an effort to have a real relationship. There is nothing to gain by ignoring one's self and devoting everything to another. I want "us"... that is what I am looking for.
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Well, I got the results back from my MRI, well sort of. The relief comes in not what the doctor told me the issue was, but in what the issue was Not. There are no tears, bone damage, nor any other issues with the joint. Apparently, there is something going on in my knee. The doc instructed me to see a physical therapist.... now I just need to know what I can or cannot do as I get back to my workouts.
Of course, with the weather getting better, my dog will be expecting more walks. She does not care if I am up for it or not, she just loves being outside, running around. She just looks so happy when she gets to run around, no leash, just free.
Take care all.
~Mal |
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Finally, My new doctor is wrking out well. He has already helped, perscribing Me a medicine to help with My damaged disk in my neck, and the complications with my lower spine. I am feeling better, but hopefully soon I will know about My knee. I want to run again, hike further, and get back into fighting form. I may never fight again, but I want to feel like I could compete. Not only that, but My paintball game should inprove. Right now, though, I will have to be happy with wallking on a treadmill.
It has been a few weeks since My Grandfather passed away. I have been avoiding the local Munches, but it is time. Since he is no longer here for me to help care for, I think it is time for Me to think about Myself. I started to think that I was being selfish about wanting to leave the family land, even while he was still alive. I had not planned on going far. Not back to Allentown or Pittsburgh. I am a good distance from Philly. But, being here is hard. Not sure I could even go so far as to build a new house on the land, not yet anyways. Besides, I think I would need something a bit more secluded, and the Best spot for that is owned by My aunt. I would need to raise a lot more to get that parcel all to Myself.
I am kind of hoping the place down the way does badly, since they just opened. I would love to start up my own place. Make better on their attempt to make it, I already know where they failed. But that is neither here no there. I am, perhaps, not in a position to be an owner yet.
Well, I am making a new shopping list. Going to hit all the kink stores near Me to see what they have. I got the cash, might as well get a new toy or two... three..... who knows.
Been working on some erotic stories, as well as My sci-fi story. I am also working on a fantasy story as well. I really do not choose where My imagination travels, so it is best to just record and work on the things I come up with, even to save em for later.
Later, will there always be a later? My best advice to everyone, do not count on it. Instead live every day as if it was your last. My ticket almost got punched, well maybe it did and they revived Me just so I can have another chance..
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I often find myself wondering about how we are effected by the almost overwhelming pressure that society puts upon us. Personally I really do not like how society moves, with it's hypocracy towards sex, both near and far from acceptance. I do not seek it's approval, but I must also be wary of it's approval , so that I may progress my public life. What does it matter what I do in my home? It should matter only to me, and my own. |
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Not many know nor acknowledge the fact that possession is a two way thing. It does not matter, Master/slave, Dom/sub, Top/bottom, switch. Yes those who are of the aggressive nature are said to posses their partners. Yet few know that at the same time, they are possessed as well.
The word posses is a materialistic term. There is more than that, since power, control, is also connected to balance. Both in a relationship have power, not matter what is thought or felt. Can it be that when that power is Exerted, there is a transfer of energy? Yes, but only If it is accepted. Can it also be said that when the opportunity to exert power is Reliant on whom it is that which submits to that power?
Only those who posses each other can truly feel that energy and power. It is a positive energy, a part of love and caring. To attempt to posses out of anger will never work out in the end. Only those who realize themselves as who they are, can truly posses. Only those who truly posses can be honest and trustworthy.
Possession is a two way thing. Perhaps more of us need to understand that and respect it. Respect it as much as it is a must to respect each other.
Mal
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Met another Chef last Saturday. He came and worked at the FKH. He was impressed with my work ethic and offered me a possible part time position. I never imagined that this would happen, after all those years of searching around Maryland for a great crew, I am now finding several here in PA. |
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Well,. I had to re-make my profile. Got it almost finished. Now I can be seen again.. which is good.?
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