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Male Submissive, 40, england
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Male Dominant, 42, Minneapolis, Minnesota
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Male Submissive, 31, chicago, Illinois
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About male2shemaid
Intelligent, friendly, tolerant, honest and... Oops, let me get the caveat in first.
Please note - I am seeking genuine people for a long-term real-time relationship and not for endless virtual chats via messenger or endless memoing... Right, got that over with so now for the interesting bit!
...and before we get to the interesting bit...
...for all those so-called Dommes who think that all TVs and TSes are not 'real' men or are incapable of outwardly looking and acting like a typical 'macho' male... I will only say that I attract no end of 'submissive' females because I am considered so outwardly dominant in my career and working life. In fact, a gay male friend of mine once commented that I am the least submissive person he knows... but then he did not know the real me inside :-)
...OK, now we have got that out of the way... Deep breath...
Oh, just one more thing...
I am NOT interested with couples whose profiles state that they are a Dominant Couple and the reality is that he is Dominant and she is his sub but dominant to others - in my view she is just a sub and nothing more.
True Dominant Couples I have no problem with - submissive women who think they are dominant and who call their husband "sir" or "daddy" are a turn-off for me.
Right, now to the interesting bits... Well, I hope you find it interesting...
'Exit to Eden' - the superb book and not the naff film, 'The Claiming of Sleeping Beauty' trilogy by Anne Rice, websites like House of Gord, Hogtied and Fictionmania? Do you know these? Are you aware of them? Does ritual, costume and total obedience ring your bell? Are you fed up with goths posing as BDSMers, the online pretentious and the ubiquitous timewasters? Perhaps I am what you are looking for? Perhaps you should read on?
I am 46 years old, have considered myself a submissive since my earliest memory and first visited a fetish club when I was in my early 20s and the Scene, here in the UK, was still very much underground. In those days subs were only allowed to crawl on hand and knee, never looking a Dominant in the eye. Over the years I have met, and very occasionally played, with genuine, serious and committed Couples - sometimes one Dominant and the other submissive.
I have never been in a long-term sub/Dom relationship.
Despite so many years 'in' the Scene I actually consider myself a newbie. A variety of circumstances - work, family (Although I am single and have never been married out of choice.) - meant I was unable to indulge my true desire to submit on a long-term basis. Those circumstances have now changed and I am, at last and finally, able to seek out kindred BDSM spirits.
To this end I am now seeking a genuine, single Dominant Female who is interested in the rare opportunity of seeing whether it is possible to turn a strong, independent and creative male into an obedient, submissive and well-trained slave.
Do you think it is possible to train a man to become a sub? Wouldn't that be an interesting challenge? Wouldn't the results be worthwhile?
I am a blank page waiting to be written upon. I am willing to be trained in the ways you so desire to serve you as you so desire.
I am genuine. I am intelligent, creative and considered good-looking. I am honest with an adventurous personality, a considerate nature and a wicked sense of humour. I am professional; I have many interests outside of BDSM that include the Arts to travel to, well, too many things here to mention. I like to keep fit.
In my vanilla life I am considered a strong, independent and intelligent male. Most of the people who know me consider me a leader and the few who know of my BDSM leanings believe me to be a Dominant - hence I have no end of women wishing to be submissive in a relationship with me. Actually, interestingly I have had several women who are outwardly 'dominant' seek to be submissive to me as part of a long-term relationship. Alas, it just is not who I am!
In the BDSM world I adore and believe in ritual, eye contact denial, bondage, rubber & leather clothing, boot and high heel worship, whips, crops, gags and many, many other aspects of Domination & submission. I wish to serve, hope to be trained to serve and moulded over time to become the 'perfect' slave. I am open to many scenarios, many options and would be happy to discuss possibilities with those who have seen the potential in this advert.
The above profile picture is one that I had last taken about 2004 when I was last active in the BDSM Scene - I haven't dressed as a TV since then so perhaps I can no longer claim to be one? I have not visited a club since nor have I met or 'played' with anyone for many years.
I am happy to chat with any sane, balanced and intelligent kinksters.
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'Thanks' to all the single male Doms who have emailed me asking me if it is me in my profile pic. I am NOT seeking a single male Dom.
If you are wondering why I haven't replied it is because I explained this in my profile - you didn't read it did you - and I also do not reply to those who have not even one single word in their profile! Sorry if that sounds harsh but, come on, you can't be bothered to write anything about yourselves and you want people to meet you!?
Anyhow, I don't recall stating that I am seeking single males?
1. Yes, it is me in the photo circa 2004
2. Yes, you can get to look like that if you exercise alot, if you buy expensive custom made TV clothing and if you spend a few hours taking lots of photos until you get one just right. Lights help a great deal!
(FYI, it was taken on my bed using a bedside lamp to 'warm' the picture using a digital camera on automatic shutter. I then used photoshop to, painstakingly, erase the bed and the surrounding room.)
3. Those are definitely my elbows and my feet - all size 11s of them! I assume the rest must be me also!
4. Several years ago I had an 'interesting' man walk up behind me at a fetish club, put his hand on my bottom and whispered in one ear what he wished to do to me. He had quite a shock when the 'lady' of his desires turned around. He flustered and scurried away.
5. I am tall. Very tall!
6. I am happy to have sane, sensible and intelligent conversations with Couples, single F/females and even single M/males but you must have a detailed profile and you must
write coherent, intelligent sentences of interest.
"Kneel bitch!" being the sole contents of a memo is not a good way to introduce yourself to me nor a form of Human interaction.
Otherwise, I would love to hear from and chat with like-minded, interesting people.
WARNING: Any institutions using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You do NOT have my permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice to this.
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I recently discovered these 2 excellent 24/7 Femdom blogs where the wife has transformed her husband into her submissive.
Both are fascinating reads, albeit with slightly different styles of being a Femdom. They separate the fantasy from the reality, but both live full role-reversal relationships.
http://femdom101.blogspot.com/
(Sadly, the Femdom who writes the above blog decided to delete 5 years worth of it in May 2012 due to abusive emails She was receiving.
She has begun it again recently but, sadly, Her transition from housewife to Femdom has gone for good.)
http://msmariedmx.blogspot.com/ |
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Regrets - we all have them.
Many get to the end of their lives regretting too much time spent in the office, too much time chasing ambitions, status, "things". They regret not looking at more sunsets, having more hugs and doing the real, important things that life offers us.
Many regret not pursuing their dreams.
I wonder what things many BDSM people will regret?
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Finally moved home, still looking for that elusive Dominant Couple or Domme. What is a sub to do!? |
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OK, my profile seems to have scared everyone off and had them running for cover, for the hills and whatever else it is that people run to when they.. run.
I am a 'nice' person honest - go on, contact me. I won't bite and I would make a good submissive :-( |
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I read a fascinating article on the Rolling Stone website today about Larry Wachowski and Ilsa Strix. Ah, lucky man... I mean... well, you know what I mean! |
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Thanks for all the interest from Americans and Canadians. Many of you have sent kind words and 'interesting' propositions.
My fellow Brits seem to have no interest whatsoever in my profile. I think I would have more luck in finding Aliens in my back yard than finding genuine British Dominants.
Things could be worse though - I could have no imagination ;-) |
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I am developing an interest in 'rubber dolls' that appears very common in the US, Holland and Germany but less so in the UK. Would be interested to exchange thoughts with like-minded people.
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It looks like some out of date US law means that Collarme cannot show my TV photo because I am showing part of my bottom whilst on my hands and knees. Oh well, photos can be provided to those who are genuine and interested.
America - the land of the taped nipple! Free those nipples now! |
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