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About Mahcumazahn
First, for me to consider you, you must be really Female, a sub, slave or Switch or even uncertain or just curious about BDSM. Secondly, I REQUIRE a photo and a profile with BDSM interests listed. "An ALL-Vanilla" interest list like shopping, flea-markets, etc with no BDSM interests listed is not acceptable. Take the time to fill out the BDSM interest area! Required also is a high level of intelligence, imagination, willingness to explore, improvise and/or risk, adaptability, and able to speak and use and understand polysyllable words. A few puns now then too! I am a combination of right brain "feeler" and left brain direct communicator, and need someone who can reciprocate whatever thoughts and emotions we have about us, others, the planet, the universe, the seen and unseen wonders of this marvelous existence we have in this corner of the galaxy.
If this fits fits you, and even if you are Klingon or Romulan, read on; and if you are NOT ALREADY HERE, come visit me in the Paradise called Hawai'i! And yes, we do have hurricanes, himmacanes and itacanes (the last one was Iniki; Haw. name for loud howling wind) but only 2 in the last 25 years which left O'ahu where I live mostly untouched. Mostly. The west side of the island got trashed by storm surge but living close to the beach is hazardous anywhere even if the sunsets are glorious. Not so hazardous where I live in SE O'ahu it's a mile inland and uphill at that. Facing west. For sunsets!
I am a straight hetero (only) male Dominant looking for an EAGER FEMALE ONLY. (NO MALES - I AM NOT, REPEAT, NOT, NOT, INTERESTED IN MEN. NO MALES, BI's, TV's, Gays, or Trans or male DOM'S OR subs. I am not a homophobe, only it is that I prefer gals; just as for some people who like cream, some prefer chocolate, I like strawberry. But we both like ice cream ;-) )
The woman I seek will be primarily hetero, can be totally inexperienced, novice or experienced, an RHOG Retrotek devotee - (try look goooooogle) - would be nice, submissive or slave, or perhaps just interested in BDSM with no prior exposure (!), perhaps even a switch at times like on a Gorean "slave girl day" holiday- I am NOT a die-hard Gorean practitioner, but I do like some of their concepts of lockable collars, siriks and tateera slave shifts, (delightful, ;-). Paga in the furs any one? Sans tateera of course!
We will at first be play partners, then if we agree, a long term, 24/7 relationship here in Paradise (Hawaii !)
OR.... since I am retired, I might consider moving to a suitable warm climate if that is where you live. Warm. Not frigid with ice and snow. Not HOT like Arizona or Vegas, nor Humid like Florida or the Gulf Corpus Christi. 60 - 85F and tropical breezes are hard to beat.
No experience is necessary - just a hearty desire, however those females with any BDSM knowledge, curiosity or interest at all are especially welcome. Read Jay Wiseman's SM 101 if you are a total newbie. "Sauce & Pickles" chapter in THE JOY OF SEX is a good start as well. EROTIC ROPE BONDAGE by Jay Wiseman is also a good book to read. And loads of fun to practice with!
Long hair is a very desirable plus but not mandatory at the onset; you WILL grow your hair long for me! Both at the upper cranium and lower end of your torso! What is visible will be your crowning glory like Betty Page and what is not visible will be my Elysian Fields. Yumm!
Shaved, waxed or lasered pubic 'Mounds of Venus' are most undesirable and too reminiscent of much, much, much, too much younger pre-pubescent females (I remember when my daughter was a baby...) and a real turn off. Juicy well perfumed ( d' Albre's 'Ecusson' ) "Hair Pie" is really quite arousing and one doesn't get one's nose, tongue and cheeks scratched by midnight stubble. ;-)
If you're not into a full 24/7 or ready for one just yet I will consider just "playtime" and developing a mutual friendship until we can reach an agreement on permanency. Preferably with sleepovers when desirable by both us. Your ankle chain to the bed reaches the bathroom. ;-)
A good proportionate height to weight ratio is required too, no taller than about 5' 6" or so. I want to look DOWN at my woman and over her head when we are out dancing. Kneeling often works if you are a tad taller.
I am interested in finding a true total power exchange relationship. The dynamics of male strength and female compliance are quite heady and bring eroticism to its finest.
I do play "Publicly", and will do so if you, my treasured woman finds it really highly desirable or necessary. Even though I am active in the local Honolulu and other island's BDSM communities, usually I prefer to remain discretely in private when we play.
I am not into Polyamory or sharing or swinging, so any interaction with you if my 24/7 will be at your request, and my approval, and ONLY at the holding end of a flogger or assisting in knot tying, padlock unlocking etc. Well, maybe massaging the gluteus maximus with a soft leather flogger for a bit. And I prefer seeing and touching smooth creamy white booty skin! If welts are to be created, I will create them, no one else.
Of lesser importance to me, but for those of you who may wish to know, I have a multitude of "toys" and am quite creative with them. What is your pleasure? Ropes - Soft cotton, stiff nylon, scratchy Hemp? Handcuffs? Chains? Duct tape, Saran Wrap, Collars, Lockable and/or Standard Leather Cuffs and Straps? Belts? Silk Scarves?
Blindfolds, or hoods with or without gags and eyeless, mouthless? Although I prefer and love the wild eyed look of a well gagged mmmmphing woman as she first sees and contemplates, anticipates and finally realizes what she is about to endure.
Where I live has thick vertical pillars and massive overhead wood beams for suspension indoors or outdoors on my Lanai (ground floor veranda) and a St. Andrews "X" for wayward submissive training and my pleasure as well as yours. Actually it is an "X" with a crossbar "T" for feet off the floor crucifixion and a vertical 2x4 for pole ties. Multi-purpose. See photos. I call it my 'asterisk' for obvious reasons, and double entendre for the cognoscenti.......
I do not do fisting; well, three fingers maybe if you are really tight; I don't do "showers" of scat or anything else of that 'ilk', also dislike dripping wax (messy!) but won't discount it, especially if it is somewhere else other than my home and then my sub/slave will bear the onus of scraping up the residue!.
Visually aroused male that I am, Black latex is sometimes appealing and I adore seeing my woman in micro-mini preferably black leather skirts, 3" minimum high heel pumps or thigh high boots with "Stiletto" heels. No huge cloggy heels please. Ankles & knees tied together of course. Wide apart works too when appropriately spead eagled standing or lying on a bed horizontal, or squirming hands tied fast behind her back while 'lap dancing'.
The current standard BDSM scenes here in Hawai'i consist of mostly whipping and flogging with occasional piercings and are boring "to da max". The first two are acceptable to me if you want it and especially if you need it. As for Flogging, I like it done to outstandingly sonorous and rhythmic music. Beethoven's Vth, 1st and last movements work well for this. As does Bach's 'warhorse' toccata and fugue in D Minor. Wagner is great also!. So if you love, crave/need flogging, you will be obliged. Ta ta ta daaaaaah!
Teasing and tormenting to a state of moaning and just just short of screaming pre-orgasmic arousal during sensory deprivation and/or tight inescapable restraint or suspension are high on my list; as for delivering pain I WILL do so as required. The "just over the threshold" of pain is eroticism and endorphic euphoria at its best.
Acceptable also is electro play. My "violet wand" has many attachments and my lifelong profession is Electrical Engineering so I know what I am doing. Have looked at and seen Erosotek's variable "zap" level and frequency adjustable 'zapper' in action at a local club but have concerns about it's safety. Clit zapping IS safe, but above the waist is problematic. Clothes-pins on the nipples mo' bettah. Japanese silver buttery clips are neato too. Wonderfull too the agonizing screech when freshley unclipped niples are immediately re-pinched.
I view bondage per se as erotic and the submission that comes with it even more powerfully erotic. "Bondage is the best 'foreplay' ".
So is a quiet evening together, soft music, sunset on the beach, a good movie/DVD or walk in a botanical garden, starlight concerts all of which abound here in Hawaii. (Pun intended.)
If you have read this far I assume you have a smidgeon of interest. So if there is any intent at all, contact me here and we can go from there! I will provide an e-Mail address later if we seem compatible so that we can negotiate on another more private venue.
Aloha!
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Going to Chicago in June, classmate reunion. Maybe also a chance to to see if there is/are people who have some interest in 60-80F weather year 'round, and no snow to shovel! So many commercial femmes? de la nuite? and so few authentic here in Hawai'i....sigh.....one of the drawbacks of "paradise" I guess. I keep asking myself where are all the "willing wanton wahines?". Even our local BDSM club is dwindling on O'ahu and the other islands not much better. Guess we need some imports! "Russian Ladies.com" maybe?
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Looking for "a few good women" who are Domme' wannabees and don't quite know how or where to start tying up their boyfriends or girlfriends or what to do during or after they have done the tying.
Hope that includes YOU.
Drop me a line here and let's get started! Classes starts soon. Latecomers will have to stay after school in detention!
;p
Aloha!
MZ
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Statistics: Out of 43+ people who have looked at my profile in past few months---
1 out and out fraud, sex unknown.-
2 M/F couples-
1 moderator F (shame on me!)-
15 males-
2 Fem Dommes-
6 Fem subs-
4 Fem slaves-
2 Bewildered Fems who didn't know what they wanted.--
50 % nowhere near what I said I was looking for. Wonder if the people on alt.com can read any better than people here?
MZ
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Summer warmth is upon us and the overhead beams and vertical pillars on my outside veranda await the woman brave enough for play time at sunset then dark....well, maybe a few candles....
MZ
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Ok, so it's now Easter. We have a distinct shortage of rabbits in Hawai'i so I don't suppose the Easter Bunny will bring me a luscious jucy fem sub. . . too bad. She would be well cared for and have a beautiful view of the mountains in a cool breeze at sunset; gagged and chained to a vertical pillar of course, but then you can't have everything can you?....MZ
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The 23rd. 1:13AM. And yes, I am an "Owl".? Time for spring cleaning early in the year. The tree is down, (finally), and time to oil the leather cuffs, belts, hoods, straps, collars and steel handcuffs. Hawai'i can be humid and green stuff grows on leather and metal rusts. White nylon and cotton rope goes in the washing machine, gentle cycle, dunno about the red rope tho.? Wash colors separate I am told. Will try some bleach on a short piece of red . Prefer the white or beige color. Red is too reminiscent of Hell's Elevator altho they DO have some neato ideas!
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February already! And the year has passed its first month, our local group had had it's kinky party to celebrate, and I have finally taken down the multi-colored holiday lights and garlands off the outdoor 7' vertical pole that usually serves other wicked purposes during the rest of the year. Anyone care to be fastened to the pole and festooned with silver and gold garlands and maybe even lights before I put those away till next year? Violet wand too for the brave...
Aloha!
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11/11/06 -
Well, the year is rushing to a close and although I have positively found that there seems to be an abundance of straight and "vanilla" companionship of all ages available in Hawaii and also on the Net, there is definitely a paucity of those with a flair for a more varied approach to 'fun and games'. Not quite sure what the reason is, perhaps not too many of ladies with either more maturity in age or desire for someone similar look here; or worse, don't even know this site exits! Pity 'tis. A pity.
Alas, and Aloha! |
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