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About madamyyc
Curious to see what's up with this site. BBW looking for sub men.
You:
- funny
- smart
- personable
- into: dirty talk/humiliation, a little forced femme (panties), strap-on play
I maintain a blog and a more complete presence on a l t dot com under the same name. Find me there. I've also just created a journal entry with a bunch of things you should know about approaching me. Do us both a favour and read it.
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WHAT I AM: I am an intelligent, creative, verbal, successful bbw. I have big hands, a great laugh, a dirty mind, a quick wit and zero sense of fashion. I'm a voyeur, so I'm all about the show & tell (as long as you're showing & I'm telling). I am greedy and possessive of the boys that I play with and understanding and empathetic and helpful and an ass-kicker depending on what's needed. I am new to the life but have been dreaming about taking this step for a long time. I write fantasy smut here in my blog, I work with computers and language in real life, I have a sick fascination for reality television and I will watch any movie Tommy Lee Jones is in and bitch you out for talking while it's on.
WHAT I'M NOT: I'm not a bot, a fake, a scam artist, a money-domme (I will NEVER ask you for money in exchange for play, though I may let you buy me a cup of tea if we meet), a hard-core uber-bitch, a pure sadist or a right-wing conservative. I'm not intolerant of other people's kinks, I'm not unhappy with my life (most of the time), I'm not a girl who uses tears to get her way, and I'm not mechanically inclined at all. I'm not a fan of Oprah. There. I said it.
WHAT I WANT: I'm a domme looking for a slutty boy to serve me. I want to spank a boy who's naughty, reward an obedient one, and keep the rules consistent enough that you know what earns either response. I want to make you wear panties and taunt you for enjoying it as much as you do, little girl. I want to watch you ride the edge of orgasm until you think your head will explode before I let you cum (or will I?). I want a boy to suck my cock (or another boy's, if I command it) before climbing on and riding it. I want a boy to worship at my feet and suck my toes while he's down there. I want a boy who will try the things that interest me, even if they don't interest him. I want to own you and enjoy your submission completely.
Non-sexually, I want a creative and amusing boy WITH PERSONALITY who will move heaven & earth to please me, change the oil in my car (seriously, not mechanically inclined at all), do walls and windows (please? anyone?) and treat me like the best thing in his life. In exchange, I want to value the gift that your submission is, I want to respect and care about you, I want to pamper and spoil you and take you places you've only dreamed (without booking a flight).
WHAT I DON'T WANT: A boy whose partner is unaware of his interests (I don't play with cheaters). I don't want a boy who isn't intelligent enough to get my jokes, a boy looking for a sugar mama, a straight masochist (though I'm sure you're very nice), someone who is illiterate or writes in LOLZCAT speak *shudder* or anyone without a passing familiarity with Monty Python. Variety is the spice of life, so if yours is a one-trick kink, we probably won't be happy together for long. I'm not interested in a boy who disappears for long stretches of time without a word. I don't want a boy who doesn't value himself, one who is mean-spirited or cruel to/about the other boys in my stable, one who doesn't love my dogs or one that vies with me for control.
I'm taking this slowly. Don't contact me expecting to meet immediately. Expect to be vetted through alt, then email and/or chat LONG before a coffee date is possible. Expect to be asked for photos and videos. I value myself and what I bring to the play and I want to make sure we're compatible before we get naked together. If you just want to get bossed around and get off, find me when I'm on IM and perhaps I'll oblige. If you want to explore more than that, follow my rules and I'll make it worthwhile for both of us.
My Ideal Person: Short-term, I'm looking to play online via IM (your webcam, not mine) or via email. For that reason, I'm more willing to accommodate your interests than I would long-term. For example, you're almost guaranteed to cum, because you aren't mine and it's all fun. I'm willing to play with almost any sub regardless of kink in this context. Impress me and join my online stable.
Medium-term, I'd like a stable of real, live boys who are smart and creative and willing to play together solo or as part of a group. And who can be called upon to provide non-sexual service (cut the grass, move a couch) as a show of devotion.
Long-term, I want a big man I can dominate sexually. I want a man who will serve my kinks and my fantasies, but who is creative enough to make suggestions. I want an intelligent man who is well-spoken, writes well (especially important if we meet on IM!), and successful at whatever he's chosen as a career (blue/white collar makes no difference to me). Physically, he's tall with strong hands that look great in cuffs, he's got a talented tongue, and can wait for permission to cum. I get off on strong shoulders and a tight ass, but I'm pretty flexible in most things, as long as he's willing to be my sweet whore and treat me like a goddess. |
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The bitch is back...
Been away for a while (again!)... so, don't be surprised if I don't remember where we left off. And if you have to explain - again - why I should be interested. Consider it a second chance to make a good first impression!! |
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Here's the thing: I get approached by a lot of new boys. Not bragging (gloating, maybe!), just a fact. So here's what you need to know about approaching me.
There's probably more, but in the last month or so I've been here, these are the themes I hit most frequently. Do yourself a favour and read them. They change from time to time...
- Don't expect me to chat with you: you've got to earn that level of contact with me, and it'll always be at my invitation, not your request.
- I don't play with boys who don't interest me as people. Or respect: no matter how I might treat you during a scene, I want to value and like you outside of it.
- If you're not interesting, funny and intelligent, then I'll wish you well in your search for someone else to serve, because I won't be interested in you, no matter how pretty you look in your panties.
- I spend a lot of time here with a new boy, exploring him to see where I might be interested in using him. Don't send two messages and expect to get dominated the next night. Ain't happening.
- If you're long distance (I'm in Calgary, Alberta - look it up), then you're going to have to work even harder to be interesting and engaging. You're in competition with a *lot* of others, so bring your A-game to each message.
- I have 2 degrees in English literature, so please don't refer to yourself as "i". I know I'm dominant, I don't need to torture the language to prove that point. While you're at it, proof-read and spell-check.
- Depending on my mood while I'm here (and in real life), you may get the flirty sex kitten, you may get the evil bitch, you may get the dorky goofball. Roll with the punches.
- If you're a newbie, I don't find that a problem (rawr!)
- If you're just looking for people in the lifestyle to chat with, I can do that, as long as you're interesting and entertaining to communicate with. If you're not, please move along.
- I'm not interested in your webcam - until I am. And you're not watching mine - until I say you are.
- I'm not giving you my personal email or IM until you've earned it. Don't ask.
- I expect you to have read my profile (and this journal), but I rarely return the favour. Most profiles are boring lists. That means when you approach me, you're a blank slate. Do yourself a favour and impress me.
- Domination is a mental game for me - I want to crawl inside your mind and use your kinks and quirks to my benefit. I can't do that if I can't get to know you. If you're not interested in showing a predator your soft underbelly, better move along...
- I am a respecter of limits, and never push a boy beyond his tolerances for public play, as an example. I never ask a boy to put his professional success in jeopardy - unless he's willing.
I'm a filthy, kinky pervert, but I'm also a real person. I have a job and a mortgage and cats and dogs. I'm interested in a lot of things and a lot of different types of boys. I'm trustworthy, love to have fun, and can change on a dime. Don't piss me off. You won't like it. |
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