MadamJulia13

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An example of what I receive when I politely turn someone down -     Yeah guessed that you're a small DICK PATHETIC faggot LOSER LOL. Reported u as obvious scammer. :) This is why sometimes I just find it easier to say nothing at all than even a polite refusal. It's not personal it's just easier when there are so many weirdos in here. What scares me is that these men are perfectly polite and normal sounding until I say no! ANY woman is allowed to turn a man down. God only knows what the poor female subs have to put up with!

I'm still looking but at least my potential candidates are improving as time passes. Meeting someone is always a numbers game, my guy is out there somewhere looking for me too and I can feel him getting closer lol. However I've met some lovely subs off here. There's not been one that I've met face to face who has been flaky but unfortunately not one has been quite what I'm looking for either. And I suspect that works both ways, I won't be to everyone's taste. And just to clear up once and for all, I certainly won't be right for anyone who's looking for a certain 'Level' of FLR! I personally snort when people mention 'Levels' and wonder who writes this stuff! Am I supposed to follow someone else's made up rules and ideas just because it says that's how it's done on the internet? I am a Domme, I decide what happens in my life and relationships thank you very much. I am also a Lady, I have whims and fancies and I can change my mind on a sixpence. And I am experienced enough to know that each relationship is unique and must be treated and nurtured with care until it grows into it's own wonderfully idiosyncratic mixture of vanilla and BDSM that takes into account the million and one differences that both parties bring to it. One size does not fit all! Let me know you as a person and then I'll decide what I'd like to do to you. Single, mature, local-ish subs only. I have no interest in endless emails about preferences in BDSM and what my favourite film/music/book is. Yawn. If you are interested then ask me out and take me somewhere new and we'll talk. I adore new experiences. One sentence messages will be ignored. Unless it's a spectacularly fascinating sentence. Clue - hi mistress how r u 2day? - is not spectacularly interesting.

I have actually got around to having one of the DIY slaves put net curtains up everywhere for me! I hate net curtains generally but oooh...it's far more private now and far more possible to have daytime fun with the cleaners. My house looks all respectable and suburban from the outside. Perhaps I should get a garden gnome or two as well? I've still not found anyone who's worthy of entering my bedroom yet though. Sigh. But I do have a new dog who thinks it's great fun to sniff slaves bottoms' when they're crawling around naked on the carpet and that's keeping me really, really amused. (I must get out more lol.)

I'm sorry but I have far too many messages now to be able to keep up. Please don't write to me at the moment. I cannot remember who is who. And to save time - For those who just want to wish me a good day/morning/afternoon I thank and wish the same back. For those enquiring how I am, I'm good, thanks again. For those who think that they recognise me, you probably do but that in itself doesn't interest me on here (but the answer is yes I am, or was lol) For those that wish to insult me, kindly move along and rant madly elsewhere. For those who tell me about their small penises .....that's nice, now move along with the mad ranters please chaps. That covers about 99% of my messages but somehow I doubt that it'll make a difference. Still at least I have next Wednesday night to look forward to......

So, the search continues. But at least it's quite fun meeting up with some of you lot. Although my problem is that if I advertise for anything at all then I get inundated with mail. Which is fun for about 2 or 3 days before the abusive guys start appearing and spoiling it. Which makes me impatient and withdraw and view people with suspicion. The next step is that I just come off of this site again. I, too, seem to be able to offend people greatly with a mere sentence or two. Which is strange. In the old days subs took what they were given (within reason) and merely walked away with a thanks but no thanks if the Mistress wasn't for them. These days I am rebuked if I say or do something not to a subs liking!! Please, if someone wants to pay me then I will sigh, smile prettily, morph into a Pro Domme, and become your fantasy and take your money. Otherwise if you don't like my style then just move along and find someone you do like! It's not rocket science! This site is great for having a good moan about if nothing else hehehe.

This site runs so slowly it's too frustrating to use much. The subs I am interested in have my personal email address now. Wish me luck that one of them fits the bill. Hmmm....

One of the (many, many) things I dislike in here is the difficulty in beginning and maintaining an exchange. The line between formal respect and stilted anonymity is so fine that I fear I may be instantly dismissing perfectly good subs just because their first approach was too 'boring' and nonde. Even when things progress to texts and phone calls it can be quite hard to maintain a conversation with someone I've never met. Call me old fashioned but what ever happened to wooing a Lady and plain asking her out for dinner? Especially if the written word isn't your strong point or you get nervous when speaking to a Domme for the first time over the phone. I really do NOT want to know what size anal plug a gentleman prefers when he introduces himself!

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