MadameMonique

****Updated 26/06/2010****
I am currently activly seeking new play partners. I have been though a dormant peroid where I let this aspect of my life sit in the closet for too long, now I have an itch, and I am back on the prowl.

I’ve been in the BDSM scene/lifestyle for a number of years now. I’m a wickedly skilled young lady with all manner of floggers, crops and whips (including single tails) as well as CBT and sensation play.

I have a sadistic streak a mile wide and love to indulge in S&M sessions. I have quite an intrest in psychological play and head-fucks. Its great fun! I also enjoy some areas of "edge play" such as needles, knives and fire.

My hard limits include: Snuff, Scat and Children. I live firmly by the Safe, Sane and Consensual commandment. Though I may hurt others, I will never harm them.

I seek a clean, reliable and trustworthy individual/s who will compliment and enhance my lifestyle. I am looking to find like minded people who share the same thoughts and similar opinions on the lifestyle and what we both want to achieve out of it.

However before you send off your introductory email telling me how much you wish to serve and how you have no limits blah blah blah (oh... sorry did you think that was original?) Take a read of the following:

There is no such thing as limitless.... only limits not yet discovered. I'm sure you wouldn't let me slice off your fingers now would you ? :-) That being said, I am a master at my art- the art of taking someone to their limits, dangling them there, and bringing them back safely. That is what makes me a great Domme..... You can give any girl a whip, that doesn't make her a Mistress.

The same applies to submissives, any man can get on his knees, very few can relinquish their ego, their own desires, after all true submission is giving up the very things that bring them to BDSM in the first place.

I mention this in light of what I have found to be the prevailing attitude in allot of "submissive" men, - the misguided belief that I am there to fulfill their fantasies and conduct a session according to their often misguided pornographic preconceptions. I am not a professional dominatrix, as such my time is given freely, however, It will be spent doing the things I enjoy - not fulfilling your checklist of activities.

If I have not scared you off with my blunt attitude feel free to email me and give me a better idea of who you are, what you seek and in what ways you think we may be compatible.

I always appreciate succinct and articulate emails as I look for intelligence, the ability to communicate well and honesty in a potential submissive - these traits are essential to mutually fulfilling BDSM play and after all - that is what we are both looking for.

On another note, Im allways happy to befriend others and have a number of near and dear friends as kinky and perverted as I !