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Female Dominant, 48, Wichita Falls, Texas
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About MadameErika
Advisory Note:? If you send me stupid, incoherent messages that open with your fantasies and what I can do for you, be prepared that you will be mocked and you might find your message posted on my blog site as another example of "ass hat" behavior.?? ? I am Fem Domme and a Sadist, but I am NOT yours.? I am NOT a service top.? I AM a lady and expect to be treated as such. ? --------------------------- ? I consider myself a "pain technician". Masterfully skilled at using pain to elicit extreme pleasure. � Let me say up front, I'm pro-pain...yours! � I�seek the exceptional! I'm NOT interested in "average ". Average is another word for mediocre, and that's simply not enough. I am drawn to intelligence, sharp wit, extreme curiosity and dedication to excellence. If you don't bring those qualities, then stop reading and move on. � I was introduced to the other side of the "veil" 24 years ago by a submissive partner.I'm a sadistic top,and my play ranges from gentle sensory stimulation/deprivation to intense impact play and full-on "mind f@�ks". I love CBT. I like the percussive sounds that my toys make against skin and the resulting marks they leave. I really enjoy being served, and frankly expect it as an appropriate thank you for my efforts. I give a lot of myself, I'm fiercely loyal and protective. � � I am loving and kind, demanding and cruel, flirtatious and remote. I'm multifaceted. I treat my sub(s) as I wish to be treated, with courtesy and respect. Being polite enhances me as a dominant and does not diminish my personal power in any way. Before I'll refer to anyone as Master or Mistress, he/she must first earn my respect, and I hold myself to the same standard. Carrying a whip, wearing a corset and adopting a bitchy attitude doesn't make me a Domina. I don't like drama, abhor jealousy and have zero tolerance for "crazy." I'm not your priest, therapist or mama. Be honest. Say what you mean, mean what you say, and we'll get along. � Getting to know me is a tough process. I ask hard questions, not because I'm nosey, but because it's part of the due diligence process. I need to know what the boundaries are, what will trigger a reaction that could be unsafe for both of us, I need to know how far is too far. I expect to be asked hard questions in return. This is the time to challenge my expectations, not later when you've commited to them. I expect trust and respect to be earned. � I am a happy and proud "cougar" preferring younger manly men (not into CDs, sissies or cuckolds). . � Anything beyond that, you'll have to ask. |
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Another one that went K&P on another site, a while ago, entitled "I Will Make You My Whore":
As I watch you writhe, hear you whimper, listen for the hitch in your voice, I know you will be my whore.
Whether I shackle you with metal, blindfold you, bind you with rope, torture you to the edge of ecstacy, soothe you to a state of childlike comfort, or make your mind dance to a tune you've never heard, I will make you my whore.
It may only be for a minute, an hour, a day or a lifetime, but I will take you to that place where you will want to: do anything, say anything, hear anything; just to fill that wanton need, the desire, the lust. I will make you my whore.
I am a loving, vicious, malicious, deliciously sadistic B-I-T-C-H who will lavish you with the full arsenal of my skills and imagination. And in the end, I will make you MY whore. |
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Life is funny. Sometimes, you just have to ask and you will receive. I was recently blessed to be asked to consider a young man as a houseboy/personal service submissive. The referral came from another Fem Domme who was unable to take him into her household. I am pleased to be his trainer and am confident that he will serve my needs very well. |
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This was my most recent journal entry on another site (FL) and I thought I'd share it here, as it achieved "Kinky & Popular status:
I am dominant, I am a sadist, I am vicious, I am malicious and I will fuck you up in ways you've only dreamed of and a few that you haven't.
If you EVER hear me say that to you, I must have decided you were worth more than a 'minute and a half' of thought and effort. I don't offer the artistry of my sadism to just anyone. I have to see the "it" in you. You must be the vessel that will capture and transport the joie de vive that is at the heart of my perversion. You are a good canvas to reflect the imagery that my mind and soul needs to express.
So often we speak of the "gift of submission" and I won't devalue that, but please don't discount the priceless value of my willingness to take control of our mutual experience, and to practice my torturous skills on your body. As you transcend to your place of surrender and release, I will revel in the knowledge that I was able to recognize the dirty, dark gremlin that resides in your psyche and tease him/her to the surface, to dance to my evil orchestra.
Your gasps and grunts delight me. It amuses me as you try to anticipate what will come next, adjusting your body, bracing for the next action. Eventually, as the endorphins take over and your brain is rattled and thoroughly confused, you begin to let go. Your body begins to arch, writhe, dance and quiver. You begin to sing with groans and moans and I know your mind is taking flight. Your pleasure is mine as I captain that journey. I have control.
"Kink" suggests that I practice "non-normative sex"....I'm not kinky. My sex practices are perfectly normal, for me. I am a sadistic bitch, and I really just want to hurt you. It turns me on. |
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Today I witnessed one of those "fairy tale" moments. Friends of mine got married on the beach--she's 61, he's 60. They met for the first time 38 years ago, got together and broke up as a couple 30 years ago. They went their separate ways, married and divorced others, and a little over a year ago reconnected. Today they sealed their bond legally (his ex-wife was a witness and celebrant). It was simple and beautiful. It was perfect. My heart is filled with joy, and hope. |
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California is rather cold. I'm admittedly spoiled with near perfect weather in Hawaii...but, I'm freezing? |
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So i took the leap off the edge... I got my first (and probably only) tattoo. My son and his girlfriend were there and held my hand (lol). Another thing to cross off the bucket list. |
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If I respectfully respond to someone that I am not interested in his or her requests for a meeting or training, it doesn't give them licence to be insulting and critical. Take it on the chin boys and girls, we aren't everyone's flavor. Also, some of us are VERY busy and don't have time to immediately respond to every message received on this site. It isn't a priority. No need to be rude, that kind of behavior simply brands you as immature and undesirable. |
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