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About MadamAsianDom
I am on here seeking a slave. ?Please ensure you read my entire profile below before sending me an application.
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My user name and admin data above tells you the basics about me.? To elaborate a little bit, I am a bi-racial (Asian & White) Sadistic Dominant.? I was raised by my Japanese mother and had little contact with the white side of my family growing up.? So while I will acknowledge the white ancestry, I don?t really identify with it.
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If you express an interest in serving me, be prepared for me to ask you questions you may find uncomfortable.? Unlike some, I want to crawl inside of your head, see what lurks inside of you.? I want to feel that you're someone I could be friends with.??? Also while I don't mind answering questions, if I feel that all your questions are aimed at having me provide you with masturbation fodder, I will cut you off quickly.
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I identify as Leather and M/s. ?If you don't as well, you need to be willing to learn about both.
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I would adore finding someone who is good with their hands, able to give a great back rub as well as able to give a great foot massage. ?But even more than that, I'm looking for someone who is seeking to serve, regardless of what capacity that service takes, and can be happy and content, knowing he is pleasing me. ?Whether I have him feed my cats, wash and detail my car, mop my floors, act as my foot rest (ottoman), or serve my dinner (just some examples), he realizes that there isn't any shame in such service.
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I am a firm believer in good manners, protocols, structure and discipline. ?If you consider yourself a brat, we are unlikely to suit. ?Brats don't turn me on. ?Good manners and good behavior do. ?Rare instances of slight brattiness can be amusing. ?A steady diet of it isn't.
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Additionally, if you are seeking to serve me, please scroll down to the sections about what it is I'm seeking, as well as the section about the application.? If you do not fit that list, it is unlikely that we will suit.? While there is the chance that you could be the exception, exceptions are so-called because they are the rarity, not the generality, so the odds are against you.
Ultimately I am looking for long term, someone who will be with me, serving me til the day I die. ?Someone with whom there will be mutual affection, adoration, and loyalty, and if I'm extremely fortunate, more.
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Important things to know about me:
- I?m a disciplinarian and very strict.
- I?m Sadistic.? (Yes I know I stated that already (above), but it really bears repeating.)
- I have no patience for ill-mannered people.
My main goal for being on this site has been to get to know people in the local community, as well as make friends who have similar interests.
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My secondary goal is to find one slave who is local (i.e. within commuting distance of my location) to serve me. ?
I do not?do ?online only? domination.? If you are looking for? internet only, phone only, texting only, any combination thereof, you can move on.? I am not the one for you.?
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Do not send me a note telling me you want me to ?force? you to do anything.? And do not contact me if you are seeking someone to sneak around behind your spouse or partner?s back.? I will not be your dirty little secret.
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If you live so far away that you would only be able to see me on very rare occasions, this will not work.
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I am very picky about what I?m looking for, and once I?ve found it, I will be equally picky in my standards for your service.? I will not ?settle? for less than what I what I want / what I know works for me.?
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While I will not post a full listing of the qualities I?m looking for, I will give a few of the basics. ?Age is not written in stone. ?I am flexible to a small degree. ?I may accept men who are a little younger than 28, and I might consider 49 year olds. ?But 18 - 20 year olds need not apply and the same applies for 50 and above. ?No offense intended, but if you are?that close in age to either my sons or my parents, it just won't work for me.
I am rarely going to be flexible on Ethnic Background. ?Again, not to be offensive. ?We all have what we find attractive. ?If you are?not one of those listed, it is unlikely I will find you attractive and yes, I do enjoy the extra chemistry that comes with being attracted to those who serve me.
- ? ? ? ? ??Age: ?Between 28 years and 48 years of age.
- ? ? ? ? ??Gender: ?Male
- ? ? ? ? ??Physique: ?Muscular (by this I do not mean he has to look like a Mr. Universe contestant, but by the same token, I don?t want him to look like he?s training to be Sumo, either.? I like to be the soft-bodied curvy?one in the relationship.)
- ? ? ? ? ??Ethnic Background: ?Black, Asian, or "mixed" ethnic heritage preferred (We all have our preferences as to who we're attracted to. ?Over the years I realized that my relationships were always with people who fit into certain ethnic groups, without consciously seeking them. ?I may make occasional exceptions, but they're rare.)
- ? ? ? ? ??Good pain tolerance:?I realize this is subjective.? But you should have? ? ? ? ? some inkling of your ability to tolerate pain.? If you know you have little to? ? ? ? ? no tolerance, we will not suit.
- ? ? ? ? ??Strong: ?You might think this is a given with ?muscular? but please? ? ? ? ? trust me that they don?t always go together.
- ? ? ? ? ??Likes Curvy Women: ?I?m not a BBW. ?I'm not large enough to be? ? ? ? ? considered one.? But I?m also not the stereotypical size 0 or size 3 Asian? ? ? ? ? Female.? I?m curvy.? Some might use the term ?thick?.? I have wide hips, a? ? ? ? ? nicely sized ass, and ?thick? legs.? If you like the ?petite, delicately built?? ? ? ? ? female, you will not like me.? Move on.? The only thing delicately built on?me are my hands and feet, which are rather small. ?I have recently weight. ?However, even so, I am still not the stereotyped petite delicately built Asian woman. ?Nor is my stomach flat. ?(Nor will it ever be, due to the emergency C-section I had in 1997 and the scar tissue that built up inside of me as a result. ?This may seem to be TMI, but if these things are issues for you, you should know them upfront and click off my profile now. ?Don't bother to contact me.) ?I am still a curvy woman. ?Just not as curvy as I once was.
- ? ? ? ? ??Be skilled with your hands: ?Whether I require you to rub my back, rub? ? ? ? ? my feet, or rake leaves, wash my car and detail it, I will require you to be? ? ? ? ? good with your hands and show good attention to detail.
- ? ? ? ? ? Desire to serve.
- ? ? ? ? ? Be Leather and M/s or willing to learn.
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If you are seeking to serve me, you may send me a message.? This is your first task and the first chance you have to impress me and show me you can follow instructions and that you pay attention to details!? The subject line of your message should be:? ?My Application?
The body of your message should contain:
- Your age
- Your Location
- Your height and weight, and type of physique
- Gender
- Marital Status (If you are single, but have a girlfriend or are dating someone, please state this. ?Don't just put "single".)
- Ethnic Background
- Level of Experience in BDSM (expressed in years/months)
- # of Previous BDSM relationships you?ve been in
- Why should I select you?? What is it you can offer me?? How can you serve me and make my life easier?? What is it you are seeking / expect to get out of this if I accept you?
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