M2controlu

If you think this lifestyle is all about the pain or the beatings and public play, then you are missing so much of what it can offer you.. The mental side means so much more . The bond and the depth of emotions that can be achieved  means everything to me. To be able to just look into each others eyes and hear and communicate that unspoken word.. To know what the other person feels and needs.. without words.. you cannot achieve that with any other type of relationship.  Dont get me wrong  it all has its place in  the lifestyle   and for some that is enough...  But it will never be all about you... and it will never be all about me... because apart we are less than we would be whole. 

    I know it is true because I had that once. And lost it.  And one day  I may be fortunate enough to meet that person I can acheive it with again.  Am I looking? yes.... Am I in a hurry and willing to bounce from one to another in that search?  no... i am happy to talk to and meet anyone that feels there may be a common connection  and get to know..But that basic attraction has to be strong enough to be worth pursuing. Looks are not everything. And in time they fade.. If yoyu are young.. enjoy it while you can.. because eventually, when time has passed  and the real you comes out..That is when the truth has to be faced... is it really there? For me it will have to be.. For you  I pray it will be for you as well.

I am looking for someone that knows what she wants and is prepared to do what it takes to make that someone in her life happy . I dont care if you are the type that likes to just hold still or if you are the type that needs to be bound..? either way we can make it work.. There is a reason you are never truly happy unless you are owned by the one that makes you feel complete ..? If that sounds like you we need to talk.