The best description of me would be a Hedonistic Sadist. I enjoy doing things like trussing someone to a chair when they are nice and hungry, setting a table in front of them with their favorite dessert (two settings one for each of us) set on it ten setting down eating my portion slowly while they watched and then, just as slowly eating theirs. Afterwords a little dinner music,something like Ravi Shankar playing the Sitar and I proceed,using both sensual and painful discipline, to keep "beat" with the music with their naked bound body as my instrument.
