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Waiting for approval from Collarspace. Lots to come. Love our lifestyle and our freedom to live what is in our hearts.
Best to you all and great success to you all.
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If you are married or have a girl friend, what makes you think that I will be your Domme? Do you really believe that I would mess with another Woman's male? Not if you are sneaking around! Believe it or not! Now, if you have your Female's permission and I talk to her and she says "YES, use him", then we have a place to begin.
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Listen fellas...I am a Domme. That means that I am going to be assertive, aggressive, highly focused and intense. I have a big personality and am genuinely a kind and diverse person who is nurturing and care about those I consider. If you are not ready for a Dominant personality and the demands that it regulates, you are on the wrong site and need to go back to match dot com!
Seriously...understand what you are getting into and don't be a pussy about it! I have said before that the strength of a man is seen in his submission and delight of a strong female. Be a man! Say what you mean, mean what you say, have integrity, be direct...I will listen without judgement. |
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Coaching: In the vanilla world I am an executive coach and have been for 20 years. I find myself coaching very often in the lifestyle.
What do I coach? How to engage in different relationship situations; How to understand the thoughts and feelings that you have as a submissive, slave or Dom/Domme; Overcoming social morays and expectations to find your own freedom without guilt, shame or condemnation.
I have worked specifically with people who have been raised in a religious stereotype and find it difficult to acknowledge the depth of the kinks and desires they have felt since childhood.
I am always willing to have a conversation with you....because demand is high, I will be treating this as "work" in the future.
So, if you need someone to talk to, some things to sort through and a NON judgmental ear to confer with from a lifestyle Domme (not a Findomme or Theatrical Domme)...I offer the wisdom I have gained over the last 20 years of coaching to help.
I don't think there are many lifestyle coaches out there, so I will be stepping in to fill the vacuum.
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I really do appreciate all of you who have taken the time to communicate with Me. Sometimes I seek play, but mostly, I am building a household for life. If you are not prepared to relocate (at least part time) or have the financial capability, have a passport and desire to see the world, please step away.
This is not a game to Me. My desires are sincere and authentic. If you receive a "no go" from Me, it is only because I know who I am and what I seek. If you are a good fit, I will pursue you to the end. If not, I will thank you and send you on your way to a better fit.
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I am a benevolent, caring and empathetic Leader, unique in this lifestyle. Discipline has its place, but I will never strike to torture simply out of delight. That is not the type of Mistress I am. I would rather you want to worship because you adore, respect and honor Me as a Female in Her place, not because you are forced to do so.
Over the last two days I have seen pictures of terrible bruising and heard the stories of relentless beatings of several of the sub/slaves that are contacting Me. They share their stories of abuse and the reasons for it. It truly breaks My heart that Woman are so full of rage and anger towards men...in My mind, that is NOT what D/s is about. It is an organic dynamic of give and take, of energy, of Dominance and submission.
If you want Me to beat you because you want to be beaten, I am not your Domme. If you want to be nurtured and grown into the man you were created to be, I am.
This does not make Me weak or desire weak (lost) men. I believe that true submission is the strongest representation of the male. It does mean that if you are to serve a real lifestyle Domme, it needs to be an environment that is sustainable over the years in relationship full of a different type of motivation...mutual respect for D/s and one another in their proper and most comfortable place.
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Honesty, Honesty, Honesty. This is not a reaction, just an observation. Many of you have not updated your age to be correct. Perhaps you have not kept up with your profile, which is what I choose to believe. If you are afraid your age will deter, that is only fear. It is true that some of Us have age preferences, but there is flexibility. The flexibility does not apply to lying.
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I felt it necessary to start a journal of the moments and observations experienced here. I will start with:
Thank you. All of you, for your contact and opening your heart's desires to Me. The most difficult path for all of us is not only finding someone who matches our personalities, chemistry and energy, but to add our desired lifestyle can be frustrating and challenging to say the least. Each one of you I communicate with, I hear your needs and deepest requests. I may or may not be the right person for you, yet, I am one of you and in that, friendship and commonality takes precedence.
This search has been just part of the course of life. I take it seriously and will choose well. Heck, I looked at over 450 houses before I settled on the one I own....So, this is the most important decision I will make for you and I. It is a huge responsibility as a Leader. Understand that. Keep that in mind with every Domme/Dom that you connect with.
Every touch, every communication and every piece of yourself that you share is precious and should be respected. Unless, of course, you are being rude! LOL
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| Age: 19 |
| Las Vegas,
Nevada |
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