I am so tired of players and fakes, users and wannabes on this site.  Beware of hotsub86.  From first-hand experience, this woman is a player and a complete manipulator of people's feelings and emotions.  She will sit there and show interest only to shoot you down later with humiliation and verbal abuse.  It's like one big explosive time bomb just waiting to happen.  She claims that she was too drunk to remember what she did, but I call bullshit on that one.  LMAO  Yet she calls herself submissive.  Hmmm...how is that submissive?  lmao  She is NOT serious about this Lifestyle or her role as a submissive.  Her actions and attitude last night spoke clearly for her and who she is.  She even admitted that she can just treat people however she wants and they are just supposed to deal with it, as well as that she thinks the Lifestyle is all just one big game!  I highly recommend EXTREME caution when dealing with her.  She does not respect Dominance or the proper chain of command and leadership in a D/s environment.