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Single, straight sexually submissive female who is open to switching on occasion but not interested in being the lead in a FLR. Ive been kinky most of my life and am open about it, but Im also conservative in public. I tend to be introverted and Im a bit of a knowledge junky. I am easy going and non-judgmental (most of the time), but Im not one to tolerate BS. For those women who contact me, or those who expect me to be bi. Im not. While I find many people in general to be attractive (either sex), Im generally not attracted to women.BDSM is not new to me. Ive been in Ms relationships AND Ds relationships and Ive played with some wicked sadists. I understood what my role was and where I stood. While I was in some very good Ds relationships, I was in one VERY bad Ms relationship. At this point in my life, while I enjoy being in a committed relationship, I dont find it necessary. Im not seeking someone to complete me because Im whole already. I also consider myself to be evolving. Im open to new experiences and ideas. With the right person, my feelings on the subject may change.In terms of Ds For me, Ds is very much like YinYang. In order for it to be balanced, both must complement each other. A Ds relationship cannot exist as opposing forces, both must work together in order to be complete.I do have some structural issues, which are a result of being too hard on my body over the years as well as some health issues. The structural issues tend to affect BDSM more than the other stuff does at times. So Ive had to alter whathow I do things, but Im tenacious and if you have questions, ask. I also have a service dog (semi-retired due to hip dysplasia) that comes with me when Im out for extended lengths of time (non-negotiable). Hes also an excellent judge of character. Often better than me.Expectations I am honest and have no trouble expressing myself. I expect complete honesty in the persons Im with. I would rather hear, Im not going to answer that than some BS. Open communication is also necessary. Particularly in bdsm andor Ds. Otherwise, injuries can occur, feelings may be hurt and the entire relationship may be affected. Given that we live in a society where we are lied to constantly (simply look at advertising for easy examples) and due to certain people in my life, honesty and communication are mandatory for me. Seemingly, small lies that someone may think are harmless are patterns of bigger problems (and bigger lies).Likes wicked-pervy sense of humor, feeling overwhelmed, having control taken away (I dont give up control easily), bondage (a hand gripping my forearm just right can make me more weak-kneed than leather cuffs), long slow kisses, the feel of a hand on my lower back, massage (giving and receiving), music (blues, rock, reggae, Irish punk, jazz, classical), tattoos, movies, total foodie, cooking (mostly comfort foods), gardening, reading, great discussions, many many aspects of bdsm, fucking (really really fucking)-the way I describe it is if Im not limping after, we didnt do something right.Dislikes disrespect, being treated as if I dont matter, dishonesty, lack of communication, emotional diarrhea, drama, lies (cant say that enough), jealousy.Hard limits scat, blood, children, animals, cutting, branding, body piercings, needles, humiliation, pinching (armslegsintercostals), face slapping.Soft limits predicament bondage, some bondage in general, holding positions long-term (basically things that trigger the peripheral neuropathy) nippleclit clamps (working on that one), high heatflamehot wax (fibro thing), gags.I am a smart ass and to quote my mother, I swear like a sailor. If you arent okay with both, then we will not get along. I can curb my tongue around children, but I see no point in doing so around adults and Im not interested in being with anyone who cant accept it. I am a casual person and more comfortable in private settings. I also dress casually. I have skin sensitivities, which means Im particular about the clothes I wear. Ive also broken most of the bones in my right foot and my left ankle, which means I rarely (emphasis on RARELY) wear high heels. In fact, I dont own any.My Ideal PersonIn life, youll realize that there is a purpose for every person you meet. Some are there to test you, some will use you, some will teach you, and some will bring out the best in you.AND most importantly, you are NOT cheating on someone else.

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12/24/2017 3:42:38 PM
Wishing you and yours a very Merry Christmas.

12/7/2017 10:57:42 AM
The older I get, the more I'm definitely a bottom and less a sub.

11/23/2017 7:24:01 AM
For those who partake. Wishing you and yours a Happy Thanksgiving.

10/29/2017 9:28:45 AM
Do not ask me if I fuck my dog. Do not ask me if he mounts me. Do not ask me if he can go all night. Do not ask me if I let him lick my cunt or my tits. I'm done with those questions and you'll find yourself instantly blocked if you do. Any sort of animal play is a hard limit, which I list in my profile. Show some fucking respect.

10/2/2017 1:12:33 PM
Evidently, it isn't obvious. I am not a slave. I've no interest in being a slave. You can label me whatever the fuck you want - but...I...am...not...a...slave. 

9/25/2017 3:19:33 PM
I'm out of town until mid-to-late October. So, will check and respond to messages but not much else. *Edited to add* I'm not on my phone, so I don't have any other pics of me with me. 

9/22/2017 8:10:57 AM
I'm new to the site and while I'd only intended to get my feet wet, I've been thoroughly dragged into the water. So, thanks to everyone for the warm welcome. That said. I'm not interested in an online relationship. I'm happy to chat with those who are outside my geography, but not looking to be dominated across the interwebz. Not. Gonna. Happen.

And for those who weren't so nice. At least buy me dinner before you call me a cunt and even then, you'll want to be sure I'm restrained or you're wearing a cup.

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bustystripper69
 
 Age: 18
 Auburn, Washington