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	About lvntogether As I have matured in this lifestyle, I have found it necessary to update my profile. She will be the rarest of souls. Devoted to her mate; realizng her needs to be decison free in her life; only cause in her life is to be the person he desires her to be. Looking for a charming, intelligent, D & D free lady. Race and shape not important.. after all, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I enjoy dining out, gambling, movies, camping, history, reading, discussing politics, and many other enjoyable activities. My companion should enjoy sharing in these activities with Me. I will train her in bondage, discipline, TPE and other ways of the lifestyle. Perhaps in time, some travel could be a part of our relationship if the chemistry and oppurtinity is there. A few hard limits of my own include, SCAT, animals, or any permanent harm to your body, soul, or heart. Your limits and safe words will be honored. D/s is not a game to me, you should crave to serve, to be Dominated I can be very creative--and demanding, but fair and gentle. When out for an evening, your attire will of course be of my choosing. Often we will simply share a normal evening out together. In time, however, you can expect to wear incredibly short skirts--sexy, revealing tops. If you have problems wearing heels and hose, do not reply. While perhaps humiliating, you will come to enjoy our time together, no matter how you are clothed, because you know it pleases Me, you will come to realize that your body is Mine to display as I desire, and I will proudly do so. You will realize I will never allow harm to come to you.. you will come to trust in all my choices. As TRUST is the most important in any relationship. A total exchange of power will occur between us. Failure to please me, of course, may result in discipline and/or physical punishment. There will also, of course, be rewards for good behavior. You will never be expected to mind read, you will know what I expect of you, before it is expected. COMMUNICATION is of great importance and is stressed in ALL matters. I desire a relationship that is mature, informed, and enduring. These things cannot happen without good communication. There are far too many things to discuss, and cannot all be included in this ad, this is only an introduction. If you are truly interested in getting to know one another, then e-mail Me and lets talk. Only serious ladies need to reply, it saves your time as well as mine. Looking for LTR eventhough maybe able to meeting for fun scenes. Thank you for reading my profile.

Please Note: If you can not or will not wear high heels and hosiery-do not reply.

Why do some think they are the only ones on this planet? Did their mother never tell them no? Are they accustomed to getting everything their way? Well, here is a realty check for those - you are not a sub, you are a user. I pity you as others who have lived the lifestyle make fun of you behind you back.

I will continue my search for a true slave/submissive. Sorting though the wantabes is time consuming and despressing. But discovery of one truly in the lifestyle is very rewarding.

Failing to find a true person who would be submissive jas not detoured my exploration. I have met few - ome have become good friends. But many if not most contacts arre still players no doers.

I am searching for the one who desires to be submissive and enjoys being his totally.

You wish to be that one? Contact me immediately.

There are real slaves out there willing to meet. One just has to weed thru the rif-raft to find them. Going to meet what sounds like a nice lady this afternoon. Wish me - us - luck.

How much you want to bet she has not noticed in my emails I insist on her being in hose?!!? If she isn't, is it reason for her first discipline?

Ah! There are more idoits in this world than I ever realized.
Why oh why do they all have to contact me?

On a brighter side, I am still looking for the one to travel with me this summer. Any and all applicants should inform me of their interest asap.

After browsing around CM, I see many others have same problems as I = want a bes, players, all talk no show. You know the type = idiots with no feelings for others.

Is this t ype all there is on CM? I could name a half dozen, but CM would not allow that.

I/We are searching for ONLY serious ones who feel and act that TPE, BDSM, D/s is a lifestyle not a game.

Strange-attempting to create a friendship with a so-called submissive who writes a great "fantasy" journal. In her replies, she only proved the point about misconceptions that can arise when communicating via email.

She was so stuck in her world, she thought my signing up to read her journal meant I was inviting her to join us. I tried to explain what conditions would have to be fulfilled before I asked anyone to join my lifestyle. She was insulted, I believe.

I tried to explain the mental and physcial needs of a poly lifestyle along with the rewards - to explain my thoughts on the matter. She wanted none of that. Her man would never expect her - as a submissive - to wear a dress or skirt or heels - she knew what she would pick out for herself and that would be it. She was her own person.

When asking her about her experiences that she writes about in her journal, she was definitely took offense I asked if she would wear a "collar" of anysort to signify her belonging to her dream man. I even made sure I put paraenthesis around the word collar. To her this was an insult. Of course it would do me no good that my question did leavr open what sort of item the "collar" could be - necklace, ring, ankle braclet or anything of that sort.

I had tried to explain all I wanted was to learn from her some new concepts or ideals since her journal appeared to describe a D/s TPE relationship.

Now I ask my fellow readers - what sort or sub would she make? Is this the concept of being submissive of most or just a few?

Having been in the lifestyle for most of my adult life, I feel I know what it contains or requires. To me she is a wonderful writer but far from any idea in real life what will be expected.

I do not judge her because she has her own opinion. But I at least search for more knowledge, am open to new concepts willing to be help others with their questions. I speak only from my experience as I am sure she is speaking from hers.
I post this message as an inquiry as to if this is the new 'norm' for subs on CM; not as a put down of anyone or anyon'es feelings. I merely offer the subject, now I wish your replies.

This month was my birthday. I had hoped to have had a very submissive to share it with. But I will not settle for medicore relationship. I am looking for the long term of sharing iyr fantasies, our desires together.
I search for one not affraid to obey to submit to be mine.

I wonder why so many in the D/s lifestyle feel beating one's slave is 99% of the sceen?

I for one hope my sub/slv will give me her submission and obedience willingly. In return I will train her in how I wnt to be pleased. Her servitutude has to be given.

This is not to say she will not be flogged or spanked for disobedience. She will be punished for infraction of my rules. But I have found many more interesting ways to do this than the boring beating her into submission.

How many feel as I do?

Wondering why in a lifestyle where etiquette and protocol are so important, common courtesy among those of us who chat online is so rare? Any feedback? For example, if one send several messages, and does not careto correspond with someone, for God's sake, be adult and honest and tell them so. Don't leave them hanging.

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Sort of funny how many email, to never be heard from again. Some send one most around three - five.

They must have super mind reading capabilities to know so much without at least a vanilla meeting. I keep pressing for a public place meeting to discover if we are capatable or not. Anyone can and will write anything hiding behind a fake front but in person they must be real. 95% of responders are "Send me your pix and tell me what you will do while I wack off" Sorry, I do not have for those.

I have been in this life style too long - I take it serious. If you do not, please do not reply.

I up dated my profile and added a photo.

Please if not interested in meeting say so up front.

This not a game with me - it is a lifestyle.

I always knew there were wantabes, neverwases, and wasteoftimers. I just never realized how many there was until I open my ad on this site.

If you are not interested in nmeeting at least once then do not contact me.

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