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About lvblprincess
I'm a single, sweet & loyal submissive w/ no RL experience who is searching for a Mature Christian BDSM Master to call her His... w/ the possiblity of RL LTR (as a Husband/Master/Lover/Best Friend) as well
I'm NOT a slut, whore, cunt, etc I find those names to be demeaning.. I want to be His Treasure not just a toy,
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I'm somewhat reserved & shy until I get to know You.. so please don't rush me
I'm extremely loving and generous & love to be w/ My Friends & Family
I can be somewhat silly as well w/ the right person, but I'm always respectful as well
I'm not into pain, not in a big way anyway
I'm really looking for Someone close by (or willing to relocate eventualy) but I'm open to friendships and seeing where they lead
MUST be Single!
NO GF/wife/Fiancee/slave/sub etc.
Should be able to chat on MSN/ Yahoo messanger & be willing to consider other chat programs (such as IMVU, SecondLife)
Please don't start a convo w/ me and expect to cam and be shown some skin..or a sexy pic because it will NOT happen untill there is a relationship of some kind
Acting like a Gentleman will get You further with me than comming across as a know it all
Thank You for looking & Have a very Blessed Day :)
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This is excellent, this sums it up! Originally posted by Sir Joe, and he has given consent to all to re-post it. Hopefuly all the wanna-be "dom's will see this."Approaching a Prospective sub"
Reposted by request: Article I wrote for another site. I am Sir Joe. I have been on this site for a over a year or so now, and I have had several conversations with multiple submissives. The one thing that they all have in common is the incredible exasperation and frustration they feel regarding the emails and IM's they get from male Dominants. (I am directing my comments to Male Dom's, not Domme's the rules are somewhat different for Domme's, and my comments here only generally apply you.)Gentelmen, this is after all a fetish website, BUT, if you are really the Dominant you claim to be, and a member of the lifestyle that promotes "Safe", "Sane", and "Consensual" or the more aptly, RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink) then how is it that so many of you begin an introductory email or instant message with commands you have not been given consent to make? Hi I'm "OverLord PuffandStuff" now, "On your knees bitch!" or "I want to stick my dick in your ass!" or my personal favorite "Be a good whore, and reply to me NOW!" are not the kind of phrases that any woman, sub or not will respond to. SO STOP IT!Just because she is a submissive does not mean she is (or ever will be) submissive to you. Why, because no matter who I am talking to I offer her the same respect I want for myself. You would no more walk up to a woman at the Mall, and tell her to get on her knees, how can you assume that this will be a winning strategy onlibe? Is it because this is a fetish site? Poor assumption, if that's what your thinking.This is a lifestyle based entirely on trust! Who in their right mind would trust you if your first comment was so derogitory that it was offensive. Don't get me wrong, in a scene,when consent has been gven, you can talk to your sub in whatever way turns you or her on. However, do you expect to get to a point where your having a real time encounter with a sub, if you are so blunt and disrespectful in your initial introduction? Or even before you have established a basis for that kind of discussion, or email.Like I said, I have been on (this site) now for a while (this time, 2 years the last time) and recently, I have met several women in person, and am chatting with others, whom I expect to meet, (in search of that perfect slave for my household that is the counter-balance to my Dominance.) and there is no doubt that in their minds, or fannies for that matter that I am Dominant. But I didn't make any overtly sexual or BDSM related comments in my initial introduction. WHY? Because when it comes to female submissives, they are not about to offer trust, or themselves to anyone who can't even respectful enough to introduce themselves in non threatening manner. It doesn't matter if the sub has said, "writeme, and tell me what you violent degrading things you want to do to me." why, because unless your writing a letter just to get her off, then odds are your not going to be anythingmore than the sender of a dirty letter. If you really want to meet her and do those things, you need to understand TRUST! It might work occasionally (1/10, 000) but that is pretty poor odds. and it will be (0/1, 000, 000) if it is a newbie or novice sub, who is nervous to begin with.If you can't make a vanilla (I use the word to make my point clear) introduction of yourself to a female submissive, and establish that your not some wack job or psycopath, then don't write them at all. It is the conclusion ofthose of us truely in the lifestyle, that anyone who can't see the reality of trust and consent in the process is nothing more than a wanna-be, who is making the rest of us look bad.(Funny the ones who really need to read this probably don't read the articles...)I am personally offended by any man that has no other articulate way to introduce himself to a woman than to say, "get on your knees bitch!". If that is your standard introduction grow up. If your offended by what I've said, then you're exactly who I am talking about and guilty of being an ass-hole. DOM doesn't mean DICK. If you can't be Dominant, or assertive without being a dickhead, turn off your computer, jack off an go to sleep, because in the end, that is all your going to be doing anyway. I am a real Dom seeking exactly what I stated in my profile - and if you have any comments feel free to let me know. But know this, I am right. Ultimately, respect and trust, will be the only way you get the consent you need have a real life encounter with a sub. Sincerely,Sir Joe(submissives feel free to copy this and repost it in your journal section provided you credit me as author.) |
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