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I am very tactile, very oral, very anal in orientation. Im also safety-minded, which can occasionally be at odds with the latter of these. Im a recent widower in excellent health generally, and Im STD-free.

I especially crave the taste of the fluids of sex male or female, being forced to take an ejaculation in my mouth is the proverbial out-of-body experience for me. That swooning on my part occurs in both direct acceptance of the load in my mouth, and by transfer of it from the mouth of another to mine -- a snowball kiss. I identified myself as switchable, but taken overall, I lean a bit toward the submissive. Bring ordered to per orally on cock or vulva causes an instant rush in me, as does submitting to face-sitting and grinding, and being ordered to rim, with or without accompanying deep finger.

I most enjoy an unhurried encounter in which imagination, the urges of the moment and a strong sense of adventure set the pace and direction of play. Roughly outlined, maybe, but no rigid . It is every bit as important to me that my partner(s) get full gratification in the encounter as it is that I do -- again, a hint of subservience.

Being bound or otherwise physically restrained, and scolded or humiliated with harsh talk, can be wonderful if the perance of the dom is smooth and artful, not halting and clumsy. A dom needs to feel natural in his or her role. Constant verbal admonishing and belittling by my dom, delivered with conviction, keeps the voltage in a session going higher and higher.

The most kinky thing on my menu is probably my enema fetish -- fair to call it an obsession. To my mind, a well-given, large-volume enema by a stern, unrelenting mommy or daddy is a uniquely gratifying erotic experience. Heres where the switch appears in my profile Im equally satisfied playing giver or receiver -- just love enema and potty play in any .

Im in Southern California, and can travel anywhere within a few hundred miles of home pretty much at will. Driving long distances is no problem for me -- in fact, I enjoy the time alone. I still work a full-time job, Monday through Friday, but a day off during the week is always possible with a little notice. Weekends are mine, and that includes overnights, if it ever came to that.