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luvbeingaslave

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luvbeingaslave - Female Submissive, Syracuse New York | BDSM Profile on Collarspace

About luvbeingaslave

I am a single slave looking for a Master to please. I am new to Syracuse, moved recently for work. I am looking for some local kinky fun. Be real or do not bother me. I am not new to the lifestyle, however I am new to Collerme. I am willing to give anything a try once. I was invovled in the BDSM scene in MI before moving to New York. Looking for events in Syracuse if you know of any please contact me.

Looking for a Master that is loving, strict and respects limits. A life long realtionship, if you are looking for just sex please do not bother with me.
Work is cutting into my social ambition. One must work, I will manage.
I was referred to as "bitter" today. Why would my ability to keep my standards be construed of as bitter? That was a rhetorical question.  I do wonder  why so many do not understand the
effectiveness of a sensible approach? Another rhetorical question. When introducing yourself, that is not the  time for the same old rhetoric. Am I missing something?
For future reference, referring to me as a slut or whore, demanding I pay homage to your greatness when I do not know you, results in my running for the delete button.
How can you make me yours when you do not  know me? Does this approach work for you often?
My cynicism is evident.
 
I am still trying to figure out collar me, please be patient. I read in excess of 30 e-mails a day, I have observed and it appears most have a standard form e-mail that is send to everyone they wish to contact. How can you gage someone's sincerity if they cannot even be bothered to compose  an e-mail? How many do this?  Cynical? Disillusioned?
I find it almost comical I used the word "quest" it does appear to be that way. This so called search for "the one". At times I wonder what that all means. Is it a certain word? A touch? A quote? What gesture will it take to catch my attention? What about chemistry? Are these things mythical? Or can they really happen in a bdsm relationship?  
The coffee date was less than stellar. I will venture to say, the search continues. He did point me in the direction of another Syracuse bdsm group. I am still in the process of deciding if that maybe the way to go. Why am I so nervous? I am not new to bdsm, and still I find myself in a quandary. How will I be looked at if future potential Master's see I am in a bdsm group? The quest continues.
I am doing it today, meeting someone for coffee. I am very nervous, I do hope for the best, at the very least I can make a friend. Keeping my fingers crossed!
I am sorta liking being able to convey my feelings in a journal, I can later reread and ponder.  I can be as real as I permit myself, silly how cynical I can be. I have discovered , I found it interesting the size of the BDSM community here is Syracuse. It makes me happy in a way, that is what I miss  most about MI
I should be thrilled at the prospect of making new friends, instead it leaves me feeling even more insecure. The only conclusion I am left with, is the fact I may not be ready.

I chose such a silly name for "zoey_on_the_run" 
I have yet to decide if that is sarcastic or accurate. Only time will tell.
Weeding through dozens of e-mails has become a chore. I joined Collarme with the intention of maybe finding THE ONE it may all be an illusion. Can THE ONE really be out there for me. I miss MI, there I felt like part of the lifestyle. I felt like I belonged.  I may attend a munch soon, that may help. Keeping my fingers crossed.
Being overwhelmed by e-mails, being  "fresh meat" I am not at all surprised. When will Dom's understand that approach is everything? That was a rhetorical questions! 
I wonder if Syracuse will be my permanent home. I will never become accustomed to all this snow. Need to jump into the local scene. I did join a local group, I am nervous  however  willing to make new friends. I miss MI. Will I ever feel at home here?
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