I am always amazed at the great mental stimulation and possibilities I find in deep, darkest crevices. The unexpected nugget that is gleaned from an encounter with someone new. It gives me hope that there are great minds out there.

What is it with men who have no pictures on their profile or don't want to send any? What are they hiding from? And you could get creative with the pictures you take. As much as I love a beautiful cock, that is not all I am looking for. Not even close to all I need. So no pictures, I don't get to see your eyes or your face, that turns me off immensely. 

I am getting in touch with this other desire within myself. I know I want to encounter an intelligent, romantic, sensual, erotic, passionate, affectionate dom. Not some poser or fake who wants instant submission. Or someone who is arrogant and overbearing. Someone who takes the time to build that respect, trust and connect. Respect is earned, it is not immediately granted. Someone who is secure and confident, not cocky or conceited. Someone who is human and compassionate. Always open and willing to learn. I want to experience this and I know I will, I just know that it takes time. Weeding through the bs and separating the men from the boys. 

I always find it interesting how different people connect. How we have our own experiences, perceptions and backgrounds. It fascinates me when people can be so open to each other, that even when they disagree, they can communicate effectively and respect each other. Instead of putting up walls as defense or projecting their insecurities on the other person. When you break down the barriers, and breakthrough with someone else, and get that mental and physical connect, that is the ultimate. For me, it is not just about sex, even though I am highly sexual woman and have a very high drive. It is primary mental, because that is where that sexual attraction starts. It is the mind that is the pathway to pleasure. I need that mental stimulation. I need more that just an easy lay. I need a challenge. I need something deeper. Yes, I love the wild, primal, savage, lusty pleasures that I do indulge in but it is so much better with the connection between 2 minds. 

What is it about some people that makes them immediately assume you want certain things. Or try to tell you want you want. I know what I want and I will have it. They see my profile and see me as a challenge, like some sort of game or sport. And think they can overtake me that way. Don't insult my intelligence, it makes you look silly. Like an insecure little boy throwing a tantrum when I don't instantaneously swoon for you. I am much more complex than that. And if you took the time, you would know that. But since you didn't, oh well, delete, block and move on. Ok I feel better now.