lusciouslaina

Let see about me. I hate these things. I'm a big girl. Lets throw that out there first. Im in the process of being a smaller big girl but Im always going to be a plus sized girl. Im engaged. I am not at ALL looking for a relationship outside of master and submissive. Im not looking for live in sub/slave. Im not looking for anything serious. My other half is amazing and provides everything I need... except he loves me to much for the rough sex I crave. He's very vanilla that way. I am mostly looking for someone to talk to at this point. We may or may not have anything come out of it. I have to feel completely comfortable with someone to even think about meeting them. I can not have a Dom that expects me to come running at the drop of a hat. Any and all activities must be planned in advance so that I can a) let my fiance know and b) find a sitter since I have a small child. I have a full time job and my family is my other job. Im not just sitting around waiting for someone. I am very new to the majority of the lifestyle and I really need someone who can hold my hand and guide me through it one baby step at a time. If this is not at all what your looking for I am still game for making friends on here. I love learning about different perspectives on the bdsm lifestyle.


Im getting a bit worried. I just joined this site yesterday and so far EVERYONE has been really pushy. I understand thats par for the course but Im not about to drop everything and meet someone I just started talking to. Im certainly not going to let you tie me up and do whatever you want to me before I have any real reason to trust you. Submitting is a hard act to do without trust. Or at least it is for me. Now I do know of people who submit to anyone and everyone but that is not me. Lets talk. Lets get to know each other (not just in the bdsm world) and see where things go. Im mostly looking for friends at this point. If thats not what your looking for then please message someone else. Thank you have a great day!