LuluDomme

~I am looking to add another sub or slave to my house. Here is a brief description of what I have in mind. Yes, it is difficult and demanding. But if this is what you want, I think you will find the commitment worthwhile.

Should it be a concern, rest assured your family will always be your top priority. Your job will also come before your service to me. I understand the importance of our "real" lives, and you will never be punished or made to feel bad for putting those things first.

You will be required to devote a significant amount of time to the consideration process, as you will essentially become a part of my family, in both the kinky and vanilla sense. You'll need to mesh well, in the social sense, with all of us, and you will need to like what it is that I need you to do. My family is wildly divergent in our kink interests, and, of course, you won't be expected to share all of those interests, but you will be expected to be tolerant of them. You will earn more free time after your lengthy consideration process. You may or may not be offered live in status at some point. I am fine with either situation.

You should be service oriented. I'm not looking for a maid, but when you're here at the house, we all pitch in to keep the place clean and running smoothly. You also need to be willing to keep track of my personal schedule, and an eye on things such as my available wardrobe, household needs, and urgent matters that arise.

You will need to be willing to be trained in all my personal protocols, as well as general rituals and procedures of the House. This will require a significant commitment in time and effort. Three weekends a month you will be required to commit to me and my House during the initial "getting to know you" phase of your consideration . You will have a fair amount of "homework" involving reading and writing.

My strengths and talents are mainly in education and nurturing. I like to help subs/slaves achieve personal goals, understand this way of life, and develop both their "regular vanilla" and kinky selves. You will work your mind as much as your body in your service to me.

I enjoy sadistic play. If you do not enjoy pain, or taking pain to please your dominant, we will not be a good fit. I also often bring my sense of humor along when I play, so if you approach your scenes like a convict to the gallows, we may not be a good fit. And, I should say that all sexual activity is negotiable, and I am entirely comfortable with non-sexual relationships. For me, what it is that we do, long ago evolved into something beyond sexual activity.

Participation in the community is a must. Going to conferences, and educational opportunities I feel we should attend, are a must. I do assist with the financial requirements of these events, and transportation logistics.

You must also be employed or retired, have your own vehicle and health insurance. If I have never met you, expect to only communicate with me by private message for the first week or two.

Gender is unimportant. Age is unimportant. What is important is a desire to serve and to learn. I will also say, if we make it beyond the consideration process, you will find yourself in a kinky family that will cherish and value you.

~And~

I can write fifty pages about who I am and what I seek, and it still won't tell you if I'm right for you, or wrong for you, unless you find some things in my writings or in our communications that are deal breakers for you. Yes, you should express an interest, in writing, and we should both be comfortable enough with one another before we meet. But, unless you come on out and meet me at a munch or for coffee, we won't know if we're really mutually interested. Also, it is impossible to predict how we will mesh, and how our final relationship will spin out and what it will evolve into over time. Each power exchange relationship is different, dependent on the people involved and what sort of things they negotiate, and what works for them. I can share some of my rituals and protocols, and needs and wants, but the relationship, like my relationship with my boy, will evolve and develop over time, and be unique unto itself.