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Male Submissive, 26, Tucson, Arizona
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Male Submissive, 23, Tucson, Arizona
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About Lukavian
Dealbreaker first I am sterile by choice, and rather decided to never have children (my own or adopted). I have nothing against those who do, but its not for me.Do not mistake politeness for weakness or submissionpassivity. I have this crazy notion that everyone deserves to be treated like a human being.
**About me**Im intelligent, a bit geeky, intense, and I love to laugh. Im incredibly open and honest, and believe communication is vital to every interaction in my life. It is, more or less, the only way I can survive in a world of misdirection, half-truths, and ambiguity.What free time I have, I spend playing video games (my begrudging default is League of Legends - anyone who plays will understand the sentiment - Ive enjoyed Skyrim, Borderlands, Civ 5, and Halo immensely). Im hardly a hardcore or competitive gamer, but Id certainly call myself an avid one. In the Kink world, I identify as a Dominant, placing somewhere in the spectrum between Daddy and Master. As a Sadist, well, it varies. I cant really get anything out of it myself unless I reach a certain point, and that point is somewhat beyond the pain tolerance of many subs. What I get out of sadism depends on the masochist if its bringing them that pain so they can access feelings, emotions, or trauma that they cant on their own, I am happy to do that and then support them however I can through the resulting rebuilding process. If a bit of pain turns them on, I hurt them a bit and enjoy the benefits thereof. If pain is actually pleasurable to them, what I (perhaps unfairly) call genuine masochists, then I enjoy hurting them as flirtation, tease, foreplay, and intimacy. These, it should come as no surprise, are my favorites.I am not a bedroom Dominant...at least, not ideally. Im grievously out of practice in lifestyle Dominance, but its what I enjoy and prefer when Im comfortable with it. I dont know that a TPE is what I seek, but a 247 certainly is.**What I seek**I used to have the list of things I was looking for. I found it several times, and found that the list was incomplete. So Id fill it out further, and find that, only to discover that once again, it was missing something.Thats when I realized that the list was entirely wrong. It doesnt matter what TV shows you like, what games you play, what your favorite kind of food is, etc. because those are all temporary, superficial things.So Ive begun a new list.I seekSomeone who brings out the best in me. This means many things intellectually, she challenges and matches me, and makes me want to learn and grow. Physically, we help each other stay in decent shape, however that looks, by finding ways to be active that do not feel like burdens or chores. Creatively, she inspires and encourages me, even joining me in my endeavours when it is feasible and beneficial to do so. Personally, she draws out a generous, caring, sensitive, honest, strong person. I know those traits are all in me, but I find that some relationships have fostered some while ignoring others, and some have even discouraged certain traits. Intimately, she helps me find balance between Dominance and selflessness. She brings out a passionate, confident lover in me without consuming me entirely. She makes me feel free to express and embrace intimacy in all its s, and explores and expresses them with me.Someone who makes laughter a substantial part of everyday life. Someone with whom I can laugh at myself, and with whom I can laugh at her.Someone with whom I feel comfortable being my obnoxiously honest self, with whom I have a strong enough bond that I can express myself openly without filtering, censoring, or second-guessing. This is not an excuse for emotional abuse or excessive criticism, and there is always a call for self-government, but when I feel that any wrong word will start a fight or cause undue pain, I spend more time rewording than communicating, and it burdens me greatly. I seek the freedom to speak frankly at all times, the security to do so. Someone who understands what I mean, rather than only listening to what I say, because all too often when I speak, the two are not the same.Someone to play video games with, to write with, to game with. Someone with enough hobbies in common that there is a common desire to have fun, rather than an imbalanced one.Someone who inspires me, not to sacrifice, but to compromise positive, enthusiastic compromise to improve both our lives, rather than the resentful self-sacrifice that can masquerade as agreement.
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Repurposing profile for use by a couple, rather than a single male. Pics of us together and further profile refinements (including a self-deion from her) will be up soon. |
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I didn't think yahoo instant messenger was such a thing anymore. Are these profiles that give out yahoo son's generally spam or fake, or is it just still popular and I don't know it? |
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I'm having some difficulty getting two different pictures to show in the order I prefer them. If only one appears (or if only one appears twice) please let me know and I'll try to fix it. |
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