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About Lugalbanda
I have been coming out of a hectic period and am taking some time now to focus on finding the right slave and long-term partner. I hope you will take care in reading my profile, and I will promise to take care in reading yours.
First off, I have two careers one in the corporate vanilla world and one in the BDSM world. The latter involves me in some wonderful play as a dominant. I also have some extraordinary partners in my personal life. So I am not interested in any additional casual connections at this time. Rather, I am seeking to explore a potential long-term, intimate bond with one masochistic submissive or slave.
BDSM means many different things to different people, even when the same terms are being used, so let me explain the kind of D-s or M-s relationship I seek
First off, I am very creative and inspiration-driven and prefer to follow my whims rather than to administer a long list of rules. I do not like too much protocol, I do not care a whole lot for leather, and I tire quickly of dark medieval-style dungeons. There are places for all of these things in my practice, but I like to create dynamics that incorporate a diverse range of concepts, environments, and styles. In a sense, I see BDSM all around me and use almost everything at my disposal when I am dominating my partner.
Second, my dynamics are very sexual and very sadistic. I have an expansive, relentless imagination through which I continually reinvent my propensities for objectification, degradation, and dehumanization. I love turning a girl into filthy little animals and bizarre, twisted fuck-creatures. And I love creating elaborate play worlds where all kinds of sick, unexpected things happen. I fetishize all things anal, though my partners submission in this area matters far more to me than her initial prowess. Of course, I like to provide my partner with pleasure as well, though I tend to provide such pleasure as a reward for good service. Pleasure is a privilege.
Beyond the purely sexual and sadomasochistic realm, I enjoy taking control of some aspects relating to the appearance and manner of my partner, as well of various activities we pursue together. I enjoy behavior modification and training, speech control in certain contexts, and domestic service at limited times. I like to challenge and push limits, and sometimes I like to make my partner do things she hates for my pleasure, with the goal being to obtain a mutual release.
I am attracted to a range of personalities and vocations. What matters to me is that my partner is pursuing a vocation or education commensurate with her talents. Or, if her life has been derailed by recent misfortunes, she has to be taking concrete steps to improve her situation. She has to be kind and have an optimistic view of people. I am turned off by anyone chronically absorbed in their own problems or by anyone lost to anger, rudeness, or hate. Ive got to trust that she will see the good in me even when I am hurting her. And Ive got to trust that shell speak up, in an appropriate manner, if something is substantially not working for her.
I am especially attracted to women who lead strong lives, filled with passions and goals. I want to be able to admire my partner and look up to her. I am not looking for someone who wants her life to revolve around me. I might request some domestic service at times, but I do not want her life built around doing my chores. I also do not want a partner seeking any sort of heightened guidance or support. I do not think being dominant makes me any wiser or smarter than anyone. I seek a dynamic in which we learn from, prop up, and guide each other the power exchange is irrelevant to that.
I am also seeking a partner who can enjoy much more than kink with me. I am especially eager for travel these days. I am a romantic and would rather be torturing someone in a moonlit mountain lodge somewhere than hanging out in a stuffy room filled with a St. Andrews crosses and A-frames.
Basically, I am looking for a woman who can go anywhere with me who has a special desire to please her dom or master and who craves intense, creative domination and sadism on a regular basis. |
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