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I reckon it's about time for an update. *edit* This needs updating again but I haven't had the time, suffice to say I'm in Birmingham now rather than Swindon.
No idea what to write, but I'll give it a go anyway.
I've very recently moved to the Swindon area, and while I've heard it's pretty dead kinkwise (no clubs or anything, although I have found a munch), so I'm hoping to find more likeminded people nearby. I'll get onto the kink stuff shortly, a bit more vanilla info for anyone who's interested first. I graduated from Loughborough Uni this summer with a Bachelor's in aeronautical engineering, couldn't find a job, so I decided to go back to university. I'm currently studying for an MSc in forensic engineering and science. The workload looks like it's going to be fairly high, but in my free time I enjoy wandering round the internet, playing games, watching TV and reading. As you might have guessed, I'm a bit of a geek. However, I do enjoy the occasional sport or outdoor pursuit, such as squash, sailing, skiing and smoking. Awesome alliteration, eh? I count smoking as an outdoor pursuit and exercise now, as I'm not allowed to smoke in the house I'm living in, and my room is up two rather tall flights of stairs. Well, at least it's helping me get fit.
I suppose I should write something about my personality as well, really, but this may be tricky as it seems to have changed recently. I used to suffer from crippling shyness (I exaggerate slightly, but I could never speak to someone I didn't know). I seem to have got over this mostly now, though. I'm still not exactly an extrovert, but I can talk to people I don't know, I'm less worried about making a fool of myself in general. I'm a fairly happy, laid back guy as well, I occasionally get riled up but most of the time I'm pretty relaxed.
Well, onto the kink. I've not been very active for several years, for medical reasons I shan't go into. Earlier in the year I tried getting back in, but made a slight mistake and rather than dipping my toe in, I bombed straight in at the deep end before I realised I'd forgotten how to swim. Short story short, I ended up freaking out and having a minor panic attack. The guys I was with were very understanding and helped me work through it, but I think I need to be more restrained next time, and hopefully I'll find someone who can help me get back into the swing of things.
In terms of classifying myself, I tend to fall into the rather broad category of 'pervert' or 'kinkster' more that anything. I'm not really a switch. The closest I can get to describing where I fall is as mostly a bottom. Not really a sub, as although I do derive satisfaction from helping someone, I'm not really in the right place in my life for any sort of commitment - I have no house, no job and little free time. Although, I never see relationships coming anyway, it's not really something you can plan for. So mostly a bottom, with a slight sadistic streak that I enjoy indulging from time to time. I'm sexually bisexual, but emotionaly straight, if that makes sense.
In terms of things I enjoy, this is by no means an exhaustive list, but I'm a huge fan of inescapable bondage (especially mummification, although I've never encountered one I couldn't get out of), and breath play. I will try anything twice (as if you don't enjoy it the first time, you could just be having a bad day), although some things I'll only try with the right person. The only things that have made it onto my hard limits list are needles and electro. However, I've only tried TENS units as far as electro goes, so if someone turned up with a violet wand I might let that pass. Needles, I haven't tried in a BDSM context, but I've had enough cannulae stuck in me in the last few years to know I don't like them.
So I seem to have rambled on for quite a length, which is unusual, I normally have no idea what to write in these things. Thanks for reading, and feel free to drop me a message to say hi, or whatever.
Cheers.
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