Lucullus54bc

I’m a young looking 53 year old white male, in Little Italy, New York City. I have been involved in the leather scene for about 10 years, although I have taken a break from it over the last 5 years. I seek a woman who can be more than just a submissive piece of furniture. The woman I'm looking for has a sense of self, is intellectually curious, creative and have a good sense of humor and silliness. I’m not interested in little girls, brats or empty vessels who’s life revolves solely around the leather world to the exclusion of anything else..

I am a well read, intelligent person. I have an eclectic taste in books and read everything from P.G. Wodehouse to Appian’s histories of Rome. I have a great love of history. One of the things I hope I’ve taken from my study of history is a sense of honor and loyalty to those I care about.

I express my creativity by writing. I’ve written a play and am working on another and have also written several D/s stories. I have a wonderful sense of humor and there was a time when I performed stand-up comedy. I have a passion for old black and white movies and love all kinds of music with the exception of rap and hip-hop.

I am an affectionate and caring dominant but at all times I am in completely in control. I am respectful of limits but would seek to expand those limits. D/s without trust, respect and affection, is nothing more than abuse and who wants that?