Hi :-) I
am 25 and looking for a Dom who will be my friend first, who will work
to build the trust that we both need in each other and eventually who
will want a LTR. I’m “old-fashioned” in that I believe in gender roles, chivalry, and good manners. I’m
not terribly interested in anyone who isn’t local or fairly local (not
saying you have to be 10 minutes away, but being across the country
won’t work for me), nor am I interested in being the third party. I am not looking for someone to have phone or cyber “play” with. I’d really prefer someone with experience but as long as you have an open mind, it’s not a must-have.
I’d
describe myself as a good submissive who can be feisty and bratty, but
who tries to always be respectful and tries to follow the rules as much
as possible. I do have some slave-like tendencies but if I had to pick one or the other, I’d say I am a sub who is very masochistic. I prefer my Dom have at least a little Sadist in him. I am incredibly open minded about most things (have a few hard and fast non-nos, but who doesn’t?)
Major turn ons:
*intelligence
*good
manners and old fashioned good manners (knows where the napkin goes,
opens doors, chews with mouth SHUT, knows how to treat a woman like a
lady)
*sense of humor
*strict but caring
*likes kids and animals (not sexually of course!)
*thinks zoos, parks and aquariums are fun first dates
*has goals and ambitions and knows how to go about meeting those goals
Major turn offs:
*guys old enough to be my grandfather
*LOTS of facial hair… a little, neatly kept, is okay… lots of it, not neatly kept, not so much
*Doms
who think they deserve my submission just because I am a sub… my
submission is a gift that has to be earned through trust, communication
and understanding
*game players – yes the kink side is fun, but it still isn’t a game to me. Also, don’t lie and say you aren’t married when you are, etc
*liars