lowcountrykink

Life is too short for all the drama. I am too old to deal with the drama and I don't have too because thre are plenty of fish out there. I find submissives on other web sites that are just the same as the ones on this web site. They just don't know they are submissive. All you have to do is ask them if they like to be spanked. I haven't met a girl yet that doesn't like an over the knee spanking.

I am also surprised at how much drama people really have. I see on most everyone's profile that they don't want drama but when it comes right down to it those very same people have so much drama it ain't funny.

Some even have drama about their jobs. It is just a job for crying out loud and everybody has one. You might not be like me and like your job but you just need to find something that you like.

Others start conversations and then they just atop talking. What is up with that? They don't even tell you why they are so cold.

I don't deal with the drama, I just move on. If you have drama I don't need YOU....lol

My rescue cat passed away last night and left me me with 13 years of great companionship. I will miss him.

I have been getting to know a hot gorgeous woman with the sexiest thoughts I have have ever met. 

We have been having mind sex which is not like cyber sex. Cyber sex is chatting  to someone that you don't know. 

After you get to know someone it is definitely MIND SEX which can be so very arousing. When I think of her and what is in my mind I text it to her. That way she knows I am thinking about her during the day when we are apart.

I can keep her panties wet all day.

Hey there,

You don't know me, but I know you. I am are real. I care. I exist, but only in the shadows. Look deeper... harder. I am there. The moment you find me, you will forget what you were looking for. I love unconditionally. I stand there, knowing the TRUE possibilities of the future before your next heartbroken night. And I love you.

Signed (with love),

This man who cares, Me.

Advice For Non-Real Men

If a lady is trusting enough to love you after you broke her heart once,

I will guarantee you she is the one.

DON'T EVER let her go.

A heart is not a play thing.
A heart is not a toy.
But if you want it broken.
Just give it to a boy. 

Boys they like to play with things
To see what makes them run.
But when it comes to kissing
They do it just for fun. 

Boys never give their hearts away
They play the girls for fools.
They wait until they give their hearts.
And then they play it cool. 

You'll wonder where he is at night.
You'll wonder if he's true.
One moment you'll be happy.
The next you will be blue. 

If you get a chance to see him.
Your heart begins to dance.
You life revolves around him.
There's nothing like romance. 

And then it starts to happen.
You worry day and night.
You see my friend, your losing him
It never turns out right. 

Boys are great though immature.
The price you pay is high.
He may seem sweet and gorgeous
But remember he's a guy. 

Don't fall in love with just a boy
That takes a lot of nerve.
You see my friend, you need a man
To get what you deserve. 

So when you think that you're in love
Be careful if you can.
Before you give your heart away
Make sure that he's a man.

If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache. Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be. Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.

If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better. The only person you can control in a relationship is you. Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, Why would he treat you any differently? Always have your own set of friends separate from his.

Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up. Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later. You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within. Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less. Never let a man define who you are. Never borrow someone else's man. Oh Lord! If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you. All men are NOT dogs. You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two-way street. You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.

Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr.. Right. Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and your always readily available to him- he takes it for granted. Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need. Keep him in your radar but get to know others. Share this with other ladies..... You'll make someone SMILE, another RETHINK her choices, and another woman PREPARE.

Marrying a divorced man is ecologically responsible. In a world where there are more women than men, it pays to recycle the good ones.

We need to teach our daughters to distinguish between:

A man who flatters her and a man who compliments her,
A man who spends money on her and a man who invests in her,
A man who views her as property and a man who views her properly,
A man who lusts after her and a man who loves her,
A man who believes he is a gift to woman and a man who believes she is a gift to him.

And then we need to teach our sons to be that kind of man.

A real man is one who can have fun with you, without being sexual.

"A real man doesn't love a million women, but loves one woman a million different ways" 

A real man treats his lady the same way he wants other men to treat his daughter.

She walks in the door and closes the door while removing her coat to reveal her in all her beautiful naked splendor as she was instructed to do. She immediately assumes the position on her knees with her head down on the floor and her hands holding her butt checks apart in an offering of her most private parts to me for my desires.

I walk up to her and place a collar around her neck. She raises her head slightly to allow me to clasp the collar snugly on her neck. Afterwards I hook a leash up to the ring on the collar. We slowly walk into the playroom setup like a dungeon. When we stop walking she assumes the position again offering me her private parts again.

She looks so lovely kneeling there with her head on the floor and her hands holding her cheeks apart for me.

I walk up and start caressing her back ever so gently with the naps of my fingers bringing chill bumps to her entire body. I continue the caressing and then trace down the sides of her breasts and then around to her nipples and then slowly squeeze her nipples until she winches and tenses up with pain. She continues to hold her cheeks apart with her hands.

After tormenting her swollen nipples for a while I move to her upturned backside and caress her pussy and ass with my fingers again raising the chill bumps on her body to new heights. After seeing some wetness start oozing from her cunt I stop caressing her and start to spank her ass. After her ass starts turning pink I move over to a chair and invite her up for a memorable over the knee spanking. When her ass is a bright red from her spanking and her mind is off in never-never land I stop spanking her ass and start probing her cunt with one finger and then two, then three and finally with four fingers inside her cunt. She is moaning and still over my knee and her cheeks are bright red still from the spanking I use her cunt lube and start working my fingers in her asshole until I have four fingers in her ass. I work her asshole over until it is lubricated enough for me to fuck.

After having her assume the position again on her knees face down on the floor with her hands holding her butt cheeks apart. I take a paint stirring stick and begin to lightly smack her cunt and clitoris while slowly building up the intensity of the smacks until she is moaning in the pain she so desires while I work her right to the point where I think she is going to say the safe word and then I ease off some. When she is ready I continue those smacks from the paint stirring stick repeating the cycle taking her to new higher pain threshold each time.

When she starts to go limp from all the intense sexual stimulation it is time to let her provide me some relief since I have had a ragging hard-on from the time she came in the door. I take her hands and tie them behind her back and then help her up so she can service my cock and balls with her mouth and tongue. When I am getting close to cumming I grab her head and start fucking her throat forcing her gag on my cock while it ejaculates sperm deep into her mouth. After I cum she tends to my cock licking up the drips of sperm that ooze from my spent cock. After She is done with the cleanup I untie her hands and have her assume the position again. Now it is time to put two large dildos in her hand and then have her put on a dildo show for me. While she slowly starts working on dildo in her cunt and the other dildo in her ass I take a ping pong paddle and start smacking her ass cheeks with it. The combination of her working her cunt and asshole with the dildos and me smacking her ass with the paddle has her orgasms start one right after another until she goes limp from intense pleasure again.

By this time my cock is hard again and ready to fuck her asshole. Since my cock is somewhat numb from my prior orgasm I can fuck her asshole for an hour before I cum a second time. She rubs her clit with her fingers and has several orgasms while I am fucking her asshole. I can feel her asshole muscles squeezing my cock as she orgasms. When I finally cum again I have her turn around and cleanup my cock again.

It is time for a small nap for me. I have her lie between my legs and hold my cock in her mouth to keep it warm while we take a nap. When I awaken again she can work my cock with her mouth until I am hard again and ready to give her cunt a long fucking. While fucking her doggy style I occasionally pull out and spank her ass with the ping pong paddle. When I slide deep back into her cunt I can feel the heat in her cheeks from the paddle against my body as I slam into her cunt.

After I finally cum a third time and she cleans my cock up and now it is time to go to sleep for the night. She assumes the position between my legs and I fall asleep while my cock is still in her mouth.