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Just a true submissive heart wishing for/ searching for, a Genuine & Nice Dominant heart waiting / wishing for a REAL connection.
Let's take a chance....💜 lovng. |
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SO.....I've been abandoned..had scammers attempt to lure me in...been lied to...and ghosted. NOW that we're all done with that shit...Please can we move on to Genuine and Real?
Thanks! |
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WHY play games? Life's just too short !
Listen to the rhythm. Feel the Melody. Learn the song. Let it sing in your heart.
Peace & Harmony💕 |
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IF we are not a "fit"...then be anADULT & A MAN and say so...don't just disappear...SO NOT DOMINANT. If it wasn't ruining my *trust factor* for any chance of having another Dominant in my life it would be laughable. But...it is and it's not.
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What a difference a year makes... Still ...livin' the dream..this just doesn't seem to be a part of that any longer..and I'm ok with that. Not going anywhere...but...just saying.
Do what you Love and LOVE what you do!
Peace💙 |
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LIFE! Is so fabulous atm I cannot imagine it being any better!! Maybe I will be surprised one day....however ...until then I am Livin the DREAM ! |
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i LOVED THIS : He held her like a sea shell and listened to her heart...And heard her dreams, like failing echoes, slowly fall apart. He whispered to her gently and sang a soothing song...Entwined her soul into His own and carried it along. He held her like a sea shell and listened to her heart...And kissed her for all eternity, nevermore apart. ~Unknown~ |
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You didn't LOVE her.
You just didn't want to be alone...
Or maybe, maybe she was just good for your ego...
Or maybe she made you feel good about your miserable life?
But... You didn't love her because...
You Do Not destroy the people you LOVE. |
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Bottom Line... A Man must take care of His woman and a woman must take care of her Man! No one is before the other...Teamwork! It's a Partnership! |
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"A Dominant must be even more careful with his words than he is with his hands....
A bruised behind will heal in days.....
A bruised spirit may be damaged for life!"
~Author Unknown~ |
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I read this on another profile on a different site and it just rang so true!
"I am not afraid of my truth any more and i will not omit pieces of me to make you comfortable!" |
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Our prime purpose in this life is to help others. And if you can't help them, at least don't hurt them. - Dalai Lama
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I don't just listen to your words... I watch Your face... I stare into Your eyes...I check out Your body Language ...I peep Your tone...I make note of the use of Your words ...I hear what You don't say...I interpret Your silences...Most importantly ...I Trust to my intuition! |
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PLEASE .. Don't define me with a title or try to put me in a sub/slave "Box" ... Just because I recognize that within my own heart as who and what I am .. Know that I am not that to You if we are not in a relationship. For me it takes emotional connections and devotion to bring that out in me towards Another. On Both parties parts...
Please treat me as Your peer and show me respect. I will do the same for You! Thank You! |
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JUST WANTED TO REMIND YOU to please have someone besides everyone on CS examine your breasts!
This has been a public service announcement! :-) |
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Don't believe those that TELL you they love you!
Believe those that SHOW you they love you! |
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""Choose your relationships wisely. It's better to be alone rather than be with someone who makes you feel like you're alone.
Don’t lose yourself while trying to hold on to someone who doesn’t care about losing you."" |
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WILL You Listen To The Chaos In Your Mind?
Or the whisper of Your heart.....? |
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I understand and agree about being non judgemental towards others and what they choose to be or do. And i subscribe to that as much as i can .. but in all Honesty? There are a LOT of F__ked Up thinking people out there! And i am Steering clear! But you all have fun hear!? lol Let me know how that works for you! |
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I have a need ................to be SomeOnes Priority not just an entertainment OPTION!...I wish for that One Dominant who has the Need that is stronger than self ... to make anothers life happier than their own....
And that is what i wish to DO for Him in return. So if your profile is filled with .. "What i can do for You" save your time... Don't bother talking with me because we will not get along at all.. |
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"Domination done correctly is a very subtle gentle thing, it whispers in your ears of expectation just as it promises acceptance and love" |
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Could Someone Please answer this one... I see so many say.. Oh this place is turning into Match.com or XYZ dating site.. well.. WHAT IS WRONG WITH THAT!? We are not nilla so it is not match.com... or any other dating site for nilla ppl.. THAT is why we are here.. Hello! Like Minds~! And What is it to anyone if there are ppl looking for a MONOGAMOUS relationship that is LONG TERM? I mean.. I dont care of YOU are just here to use people for mindless sex and playtime to get your rocks off so WHY would You care some are looking for and wanting is a solid, happy, long term and monogamous relationship that , for some, may or may not end up living together and/or marriage! I mean I could care less if you want to fuck or be fucked by 100 different ppl in one night.. Hey at least You have a GOAL! lol .. so please.. why do you care what i am seeking here? It is not hurting you.. just.. ignore me and move on...
Showing yourself to be a crabby,one track mind sort of person is not going to attract anyone to you.. so i would give it a second and maybe even a third thought before you let drivil spew forth and show you to be such a small minded and emotionally empty & judgemental person...sheesh!
Other than that?
Everyone Have a Great Weekend! i am outta here! The Sunshine awaits! :-)
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I am not looking for someone who seeks out a woman they Think they can live with... I am waiting for that One Person who KNOWS without doubt that He cannot live WITHOUT me....! |
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All a girl really wants is for ONE guy to prove to her that they are Not ALL The Same! |
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Here's a CLUE! For Most women we are more emotional creatures not Visual.. so all you "Doms" out there flying the penis flag should really get a clue and PUT IT AWAY! If you knew how silly we think this sort of pic is well... Youd put your boxers back on! Please?!
Thank You we now return you to your regular program! :D |
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I used to think i wanted the whole Fairytale and Believed in that concept 1000%!.....But lately... i have found that Fairy Tales....while still believable in my heart.... have, for the most part now, become... very GRIMM. Had i wished for a bedtime story i would have Asked!! Thankyouverymuch!! xo
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If someone stands by your side through your worst times...They're the One who deserves to be there through all your Best times! |
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When things become real....Liars flee ...Only Honesty stands strong. You can pretend to be who ever you want .... but in the harsh light of Reality...It becomes clear who you really are. Be sure You can live with that. |
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HE SAID "There are only two days in the year when nothing can be done. One is called yesterday and the other is called tomorrow, so TODAY is the right day to Love, Believe, do and mostly live"
~The Dalai Lama~ |
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IN 2015 I WILL : Be Present... Make Love...Enjoy coffee...Avoid Small Talk... Embrace Conversation...Buy a plant & Water it...Have a soft voice and a quick wit! Make my bed ...Make someone else's bed...Take long walks.. Make Art.. Create...Swim in the Ocean...Dance in the rain.. Take chances...Ask questions...Make mistakes... Learn...Know my Worth...Love Fiercely...Forgive quickly. Let go of what doesn't make me Happy and GROW. It WILL be the BEST Year ever! |
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It's always good to remember that there is a BIG difference between Someone who wants you... And Someone who will do Anything to keep you! |
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Read this today .....thought i would share... Warning or attraction!?! lol You decide!
LEO – The Lion (July 23 to August 22)
Great talker. Attractive and passionate. Laid back. Usually happy but when unhappy tend to be grouchy and childish. A Leo’s problem becomes everyone’s problem. Most Leos are very predictable..... Knows how to have fun. Is really good at almost anything. Great kisser. Very predictable. Outgoing. Down to earth. Addictive. Attractive. Loud. Loves being in long relationships. Talkative. Not one to mess with. Rare to find. Good when found. |
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People think a Soul Mate is your perfect fit, and that's
what everyone wants. But a TRUE Soul Mate is a mirror...
The person who shows you what is holding you back.
A Soul mates purpose it to shake you up! Tear apart your ego
a little bit...show you your obstacles and addictions...Break
your heart open so new light can get in.
~author unknown~ |
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This is a beautiful quote from Emmanuel's Book II, by Ram Doss.
*What does the voice of fear Whisper to you? Fear speaks to you in logic and reason. It assumes the language of love itself. Fear tells you, "I want to make you safe."
Love says,"You are safe."
Fear says, "Give me frozen images. Give me something I can rely on."
Loving truth says, "Only give me this moment."
Fear would walk you on a narrow path Promising to take you where you want to go.
Love says, "Open your arms and fly with me."
Every moment of your life You are offered the opportunity to choose-- Love or fear, To tread the earth or soar the heavens.* |
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It's hard to wait around for something you want that you know may never happen...
It's even harder to give up when you know it's Everything! you ever wanted. |
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The BEST place in the world is in the arms of someOne who will not only hold you when you're at your best....but will pick you up and hold you in your most weak moments.
~author unknown~ |
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MERRY CHRISTMAS EVERYONE! I wish for you family and JOY today and that all your dreams come true! May Every day in the coming New Year bring Blessings in Your lives! xo & Ho! Ho! Ho! |
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I WOULD MUCH RATHER TAKE A COLD CANING
THAN EXPERIENCE THE PAIN OF BEING PLAYED BY A FAKE !
I WOULD RATHER LOOK YOU IN THE FACE AND BE TOLD THERE JUST
ARE NO FEELINGS IN YOU FOR ME ...
THAN HEAR NOTHING AND BE LEFT WONDERING WHAT I DID WRONG!
I WOULD RATHER NEVER KNOW LOVE AND BE IGNORANT
OF THIS PAIN ...
THAN BE COERCED INTO OPENING AND GIVING MY HEART TO SOMEONE ONLY TO HAVE IT CRUSHED WITHOUT THOUGHT...
I WOULD RATHER BE THE OPENLY HONEST & CARING ONE...
THEN THE ONE WHO HURTS PEOPLE ...
AND DOESN'T SEEM TO CARE AT ALL.
PLAYING WITH PEOPLE AT RANDOM
MAY BE FUN FOR YOU BUT...
WHEN IT'S 3AM AND ALL YOU
WANT IS TO BE LOVED AND ARE
TRULY ALONE...
YOU WILL REALIZE IT IS YOU
WHO MADE A TERRIBLE
MISTAKE!
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What it comes down to in the end is.. ALL I can do is just Be Myself... The rest? Is up to YOU! |
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I Read This On Another Site and Had to Share..
I WISH to be courted......
"What Ever Happened To Being Courted? "
"I don't mean agreeing to meet somewhere for a date ... a quick bite or a drink while you ask 20 questions ...
I mean the romance, the persual, the flirting, and the realization of how wonderful it is to have met (insert gender), and how grateful we are when we have truly found that unique connection with someone who values who we are, and realizes how rare and beautiful that opportunity is?
The idea that love is a gift. Not just a burning need to get our "wants and needs met", but to appreciate what we have to "give" to each other.
My issue is that so many of us view love or sex as such a disposable commodity.
How seriously do we value or treasure this connection?
How many people will regret in the name of vanity what they had and lost?
How many people have "truly" thought about what "love" is, and live by that deeper truth or meaning?" |
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"Creating in someone the desire to obey requires a subtle seduction. " |
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I am damaged yet Strong!
I am flawed yet perfectly imperfect!
I am Me!
I am sensitive yet strong.
I don't trust because I've been hurt...Yet i long to trust more than anything!
I am cautious because I have been frightened...but i know i can be brave within Your strength!
I am intense because I've been rejected.
I am protective because I have been exposed.
I am a fighter because I have been at one's mercy.
I'm defensive because I have been judged.
I am Beautifully Broken, but I am ME and I am enough...And I WILL Heal! |
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Sitting on the step...outside in the quiet of the night.
The moon hanging cool and bone white in the sky...
The moonlight turning the leaves in the silent trees silver
in the dark...The soft scents of summer floating
on the humid night air.
A bird , as lonely as I , begins its lonely night song...
And it fills me with longing for something... for someone.
A touch, a whisper in the dark, an arm around my shoulders.
A mate....
Not just the physical, but the emotional,the spiritual partner.
The one who will look past the physical and into my heart and
understand.
And as the lonely bird calls out so does my heart. |
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Thank goodness for a New Day! Always another opportunity for a fresh start and always another chance to feel hopeful that something Fabulous will happen!
HAPPY FRIDAY EVERYONE!
Have a really great weekend! |
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You just can't make this stuff up! It's like a bad B movie! or a Train wreck!! You can't look away...You can always predict the Ending and it just leaves a BAD taste in your mouth! :-( BLECH! |
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How come Doms never have ** Massages - giving (expert)** on their profiles under things they Love catagory? Just sayin.. |
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Why Women Cry. Watch her eyes
"When GOD made woman she had to be special.
Her shoulders had to be strong enough to carry the weight of the world, yet gentle enough to give comfort.
She needed an inner strength to endure childbirth and the rejection that many times comes many times in her life.
She needed a hardness that allows her to keep going when everyone else gives up, and take care of her family through sickness and fatigue without complaining.
She needed the sensitivity to love under any and all circumstances, even when she was hurting very badly.
She needed the strength to carry her husband through his faults and fashioned her from his rib to protect his heart.
She has the wisdom to know that a good Man never hurts those He loves and cares for, but sometimes tests her strengths and her resolve to stand beside him unfalteringly.
And finally God gave her a tear to shed. This is hers exclusively to use whenever it is needed."
"You see the beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair.
The beauty of a woman must be seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart - the place where love resides."
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Sitting on the step...outside in the quiet of the night.
The moon hanging cool and bone white in the sky...
The moonlight turning the leaves in the silent trees silver
in the dark...The soft scents of summer floating
on the humid night air.
A bird , as lonely as I , begins its lonely night song...
And it fills me with longing for something... for someone.
A touch, a whisper in the dark, an arm around my shoulders.
A mate....
Not just the physical, but the emotional,the spiritual partner.
The one who will look past the physical and into my heart and
understand.
And as the lonely bird calls out so does my heart.
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Don't be afraid of Reality! That is where all the FUN begins!!! If you find someone that makes you laugh.. GRAB 'EM! Because after everything else is tired and gone and over... love and laughter is all we have! |
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I really really hope it is not too much to ask for a Master who can do more than issue Orders and just wants His cock sucked? Lord i hope not or i am going to have to rescue some more cats! ha! |
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