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Male Submissive, 38, Annapolis, Maryland
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Male Dominant, 30, Orangeburg, South Carolina
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Female Submissive, 55, SanDiego, California
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About LovingYouMore
If you haven't found someone else yet, I want you to know that I am available for all sorts of experimentation. For instance, I have a chastity cage that you can keep me in between our play periods. I have a ball harness from which you can hang weights while you subject me to other tortures. I have a collar and leash that fit around my cock and balls for you to lead me around, either on all fours or on two feet.
I am willing to go to whichever dungeon you like for you to practice in public what you've taught me in private. I am willing to wear an electric collar around my genitals when we go out to dinner or a movie, so that you can shock me into appropriate behaviors if I misbehave. As I said, I'm anxious to be trained. In addition, I can serve you with my tongue or my penis or my ass. I'm here for you. Just let me know what it is you want. I will probably go along...because I just want to be a woman's sex object without volition of my own, doing everything and anything she asks.
Can that woman be you? Looking for a "Sadist," a "Humiliatrix," an "Owner." Will I be yours? Can I be yours?
{Not looking for a pro, who would do this for money. I'm not a john. I'm a regular guy with this fetish}
My Ideal Person I'd like to find a domme who is on the same page with me on this or, if you can't be that, then a play partner to help fulfill my sexual fantasies regarding BDSM. If you have any inclination at all to take charge in the bedroom or in the backyard or in an elevator, then I might be the right person for you.
I don't care if you have any experience as a domme. I can help you learn. Any race is great. Any age from 18 up to 65 is fine. Any height from 4'10" to 6'10" is doable. But please be pretty.
So, please contact me, if you live in southern Los Angeles or northern Orange Country. We're close enough that we could spend some meaningful and interesting times together which, hopefully, will also include dinner or movie afterwards.
This cannot be an ordinary girl but a dominant woman in the bedroom to put me in a cock cage and to control where and when I can come. Of course, you decide what I have to do in order to come out of the cock cage. We can talk about it more, if you think this could be fun, with only you having the power to dictate when I can come.
Consider me your new boyfriend, who has no choice but to come over whenever you give me the opportunity. Consider me your new boyfriend, who can't cheat on you, because you alone have the key. Consider me your sex slave, who has to do whatever evil thing you wish just so that I can come off.
- By the simple act of locking him up he will become submissive and spend all his waking moments as an obedient, willing puppy who lives for pleasing his keyholder. In the fantasies, something magical happens the moment you cage his penis. Maybe it does for some, but let’s face it, padlocking a penis is not likely to generate an instant personality change. Be that as it may, underlying this fantasy is a desire to surrender enough control to the keyholder so that by pleasing her he can earn her attention and maybe temporary release for some sex. More simply, at the least, this is an expression of a desire for you to take the sexual initiative.
- Being locked up allows him to atone for some sin(s). Whether it was outright cheating or simply some secret masturbation or other domestic infraction, the fantasy has the male caged as atonement for his sin. By surrendering his penis, he is showing his devotion and wish to be forgiven. With his keyholder in control, he can “prove” his devotion. In turn, she can be sure his boy part won’t be going where it shouldn’t. In practice, this can actually work quite well. The key is that you have had to forgive him his transgression before you lock him up. Chastity shouldn’t be revenge, at least in this scenario.
- He gets locked up for being “bad”. In this case, the cage is punishment. He has to wear it continuously to serve out his time. In most of the fantasies around this, the amount of time served can be extended for even the slightest misbehavior. A lot of people actually play this way. A boy who isn’t very careful could end up waiting a very long time to be unlocked.
- His penis is Her toy. The keyholder declares ownership by locking him up. If and when it is unlocked or he gets to ejaculate are up to the whim of his keyholder.
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