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Why do W/we use terms like "attractive"???  I mean that term is so vastly different from one persons perspective to anothers.  To some tall and slender is attractive to another it is short and thick or to a sub who likes being smothered it could be someone 300lbs... the media has the word so twisted supermiodel... the 1/10000000th percent of the "realistic" population pops into mind at the word --- attractive.

What does ATTRACTIVE mean to Y/you???

In case you missed it on 60 Minutes, this is what Andy Rooney thinks about women over 40:

"As I grow in age, I value women over 40 most of all.
Here are just a few reasons why:

A woman over 40 will never wake you in the middle of the night and ask, "What are you thinking?"
She doesn't care what you think!!! 

If a woman over 40 doesn't want to watch the game , she doesn't sit around whining about it.
She does something she wants to do, and it's usually more interesting.
 

Women over 40 are dignified. They seldom have a screaming match with you at the opera or in the middle of an expensive restaurant.

Of course, if you deserve it, they won't hesitate to shoot you if they think they can get away with it!!!
(Yea! Babeee)
 

Older women are generous with praise, often
undeserved. They know what it's like to be
unappreciated.
 

Women get psychic as they age. You never have to confess your sins to a woman over 40.

Once you get past a wrinkle or two, a woman over 40 is far sexier than her younger counterpart.

Older women are forthright and honest. They'll tell you right off if you are a jerk if you are acting like one. You don't ever have to wonder where you stand with her.
 

Yes, we praise women over 40 for a multitude of reasons. Unfortunately, it's not reciprocal.

For every stunning, smart, well-coiffed, hot woman over 40, there is a bald, paunchy relic in yellow pants making a fool of himself with some 22-year old waitress.

Ladies, I apologize.
For all those men who say, "Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?", here's an update for you.
 

Nowadays 80% of women are against marriage. Why?

Because women realize it's not worth buying an entire pig just to get a little sausage! "

Andy Rooney is a really smart guy!

I don't care what Andy Ronney thinks...I still love women under 40...of course I love women over 40...oh hell, I'm a man...I love women!!!

 Why do people on this site become so incensed when told how to communicate with formal manners? We are not on a knitting site after all! It is a domination/submission site. The dominants are supposed to be dominant. Go figure. This is not a vanilla dating site where it is touchy feely and to find out about what one has for breakfast?or what ones favorite color is.  Perhaps that is for later. This site is to have online contact with either dominants or submissive. On most of our parts this contact is to own a sub/slave or to find a dominiant.

    This contact is an interview process. As in a job interview, questions are asked and statements made to see how the individual would respond. This response will be noted and then decisions will be made based upon these responses.

    The use of better manners in this lifestyle should be expected by sub/slaves. Likewise, domination should be expected from the dominants. It always amazes me when I respond to a submissive and they give me the old line "I may be a submissive but I am not your slave." Meaning. I can speak with you any way I wish.

    Now how is this attitude in anyway submissive? If you were looking for a job with a company would you take a similar position with the interviewer? If you did would you expect to get the job?

   Now shall we deal with the "I am not a doormat" saying?  If I am looking for a submissive personality in an employee, the candidate will be asked certain questions so that I may bring out that personality. As in many walks of life, there are many players. These questions are designed to ferret out the best and the worst possible candidates.

    There are many ways one can submit, and not do as they are told. One does not have to be a doormat, but one can still behave submissively. Yes, this is perhaps difficult to understand for it is not what one says, but how it is said that determines if one is a submissive or not.

    What is an interview designed for? An interview is designed so that the interviewer may find the best possible candidate that demonstrates the abilities to do the prospective workload. It is not meant to insult, or meant hurt anyone.

    If the prospective owner is real one may expect certain tests so that the submissive may demonstrate his/her submission. I personally would not trust anyone that did not try to perform per his or her nature. I.E.? dominants, shall we say, dominate. Submissive, after all, should submit. Do not be surprised when the dominants actually does what their name indicates. I am always surprised when a submissive does not do as their profile says, (read entry about walking the talk) which is to submit.

   This site is not a dating site of vanilla personals; it is a site of dominant and submissive personalities. One should reasonably expect this. Also one should reasonably expect tests upon both sides of the fence. Tests are fine; do we fail them because we are thinking we are taking the knitting test, or pass them because we are truly taking the D/s test?

    Do not go looking for a silk purse in a pigpen, and then be upset because you get soiled and come away with a pig. Expect to find what you are looking for. If you are looking for a dominant on a D/s site, then expect this. If one is looking for a submissive then one should reasonably expect a submissive on a D/s site, especially if one claims to be one. Do not hate the game, learn the game. Expect you are playing baseball in a baseball field, not football. 
  

 So in conclusion, this site is not a dating site of vanilla personals; it is a site of dominant and submissive personalities. One should reasonably expect this. Also one should reasonably expect tests upon both sides of the fence. Tests are fine; do we fail them because we are thinking we are taking the knitting test, or pass them because we are truly taking the D/s test?

    What is one goal for this site? To find a real. Or to find acceptably real.

    Food for thought. Good luck in your search.

I just dropped my cell phone in the swimming pool so IF you want me to have your number again... better resend it to me cuz all I had is lost. 
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