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loveVSneed

lovevictim
Male Dominant, 35, new york
Lovevol
Female Switch, 26, Detroit-ish, Michigan
lovevictim1
Male Submissive, 39, London
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About loveVSneed

What does one do when on the one hand you care about about a man, even love him in a soft not passionate way, yet he can't seem to give you what you need?

I am a submissive, I know that I need to be dominated to be happy- it makes me feel safe, good, secure and wanted. I want to be owned, and know being truly owned and taken care of, a slave and pet for the right Master is what will complete me.

My boyfriend is into somethings, but it is more kinky then what i need, i care about him, I trust him, but I can't take him seriously the few times he tries to do anything. And even then I can feel he does it just for my benifit- and that is not what I need.
I need for the man to want it, to use me, to allow me to please him... not to dominate me just to make me happy.

Can I be happy when I constantly yearn to be dominated, and know the man I am with cannot do it? When I find myself looking throughdominants profiles, and then feeling guilty though I know I would never cheat?
I don't know.

I think I am here for chat, not sure, but just to ask, see how other people handle it, because I am sure this must have happened before.
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