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Kinkerbelle00

About LovesBigWomen

Please note I am married and my wife knows about my lifestyle but has no interest in it. I hide nothing from her and I won't lie to her or to anyone. Lies only lead to bigger problems, so don't ever lie.

So with all that said I'm seeking someone who is honest, preferably a BBW or SSBBW that enjoys the kinkier side of life.

I enjoy the outdoors, cooking, fixing all different types of things, filming, photography, playing cards and board games.

Life is short so explore it before it's too late.


I'm wanting someone for a long-term relationship not just a onetime thing.





Many of you have a problem with the fact that I'm married and yet I'm here looking for someone in this wonderful lifestyle but my wonderful wife had known I was into this lifestyle before we were married and she's always told me to explore and enjoy. Our marriage works because we're open and honest with each other. We don't hide our thoughts or feeling from each other.



If your married or with someone and you feel you can't talk about these things than you really need to look at the relationship and ask yourself why your there.


With all the people that like to play games on here and in life one should take the time to really get to know the person you're talking with. Don't fall for the flattery, the kindness or their charm. Ask questions, look for inconsistencies in what they say and do your research.



Have a list of questions prepared.

Copyright all photos. You don't want someone selling, sharing or posting your photos on other sites.

Be cautious on what you share until you know the person you're talking to. Don't rush out and give them all your personal information.

When first meeting someone let someone know where your meeting them and give them a time you will call them back so they know your safe.

Make sure both of you have been checked for STD. You don't want to wake up and find you've caught something.

Really take the time to think of all your hard limits. You don't want to be in the middle of playtime and find yourself getting poked in the butt all because you forgot to put anal on the list.

Be honest. Nothing worse than being caught in a lie and if you hate being lied to then why lie to someone else.

I found this checklist a few years ago and it can give you a good idea how well the match can be.


Sub Check List



This checklist is to be filled out with due haste and returned as a Microsoft Word attachment. For those previously identified as switches: copy the list and fill it out twice. For each item, provide two answers and additional comments where germane.


  • For experience, write YES or NO next to each item to indicate if you have EVER done that activity.

  • For willingness, indicate for each item how you feel about doing that activity by rating it on a scale of NO or 0 to 5.


    • ?--you don't understand what the item is attempting to describe

    • NO--you will not do that item under any circumstances (a hard limit)

    • 0--you have utterly no desire to do that activity and don't like doing it (in fact, may loath it) and would ordinarily object to doing it, but you would permit Her to do it if She wanted it (sometimes called a soft limit)

    • 1--you don't want to do or like to do this activity, but wouldn't object if it were asked of you

    • 2--you will or do partake of this activity, but it has no special appeal for you

    • 3--you think you would or do like to do the activity, at least on an irregular/ occasional basis

    • 4--you like doing this activity, and would like to experience it on a regular basis, or that you are very much interested in doing the activity

    • 5--the activity is a wild turn-on for you, and you would like it as often as possible, or you can’t wait to do the activity


  • Note any additional information or nuances that might be important for Her to know in the margin to the right



There is intentionally some overlap between categories. Unless otherwise stated, you are the recipient/target of the activity.



Experience/Willingness/Notes-Nuances
Enter in each line:
YES-NO/NO or 0-5/any appropriate
samples: Pony Play YES/5/love it the most or

Swallowing feces NO/1/would do it if physically forced only



Abrasion
Anal sex (easy)
Anal sex (rough)
Anal plugs (small, time limits)
Anal plugs (large, time limits)
Anal plug (public, under clothes)
Beating (soft)
Beating (hard)
Biting others
Blindfolds
Being bitten
Bestiality
Breast bondage
Breath control
Branding
Bondage (light)
Bondage (heavy)
Bondage (public, under clothing)
Breast whipping
Caning
Cattle prod (electrical toy)
Chains
Chastity belts
Choking
Chores (domestic service)
Clothespins
Cock worship
Collars (worn in private)
Collars (worn in public)
Corsets (wearing casually)
Corsets (trained waist reduction)
Cuffs (leather)
Cuffs (metal)
Cutting
Dildos
Double penetration
Electricity
Enemas (for cleansing)
Enemas (retention/punishment)
Enforced chastity
Erotic dance (for audience)
Examinations (physical)
Exercise (forced/required)
Exhibitionism (friends)
Exhibitionism (strangers)
Eye contact restrictions
Face slapping
Fantasy abandonment
Fantasy rape
Fantasy gang rape
Fear (being scared)
Fisting (anal)
Fisting (vaginal)
Flame play
Forced dressing
Forced masturbation
Forced nudity (private)
Forced nudity (around others)
Gags (specify type)
Genital sex
Given away to another Dom (temp)
Given away to another Dom (perm)
Group sex, you and 2
Group sex, you and 3
Group sex, you and 4 or more
Hair pulling
Hand jobs (giving)
Hand jobs (receiving)
Harems (serving w/other subs)
Harnessing (leather)
Harnessing (rope)
Having food chosen for you
Having clothing chosen for you
Head (give fellatio/cunnilingus)
Head (receive fellatio/cunnilingus)
Hot oils (on genitals)
Hot waxing
Humiliation (private)
Humiliation (public)
Ice cubes
Immobilization
Kidnapping
Kneeling
Knife play
Leather clothing
Leather restraints
Lectures for misbehavior
Licking (non-sexual)
Massage (giving)
Medical scenes
Modeling for erotic photos
Nipple clamps
Nipple rings (piercings)
Nipple play/"torture"
Nipple weights
Oral/anal play (rimming)
Over-the-knee spanking
Orgasm denial
Orgasm control
Outdoor scenes
Outdoor sex
Pain (severe)
Pain (mild)
Persona training (in scene)
Piercing (temporary, play-pierce)
Piercing (permanent)
Public exposure
Punishment Scene
Pussy whipping
Rubber/latex clothing
Rope body harness
Sensory deprivation
Service by purposeful deception
Serving as a maid
Serving as waitress/waiter
Serving orally (sexual)
Serving other Doms/Dommes (supervised)
Serving other Doms/Dommes (unsupervised)
Sexual deprivation (short term)
Sexual deprivation (long term)
Shaving (body hair)
Shaving (head hair)
Sleep deprivation
Slutty clothing (private)
Slutty clothing (public)
Spanking
Speech restrictions (when, what)
Speculums (Anal)
Speculums (vaginal)
Standing in corner
Strapping (full body beating)
Suspension (upright)
Suspension (inverted)
Suspension (horizontal)
Swallowing semen
Teaching (specify subjects)
Teasing
Tickling
Triple penetration
Vaginal dildo
Verbal humiliation
Vibrator on genitals
Violet Wand (electrical toy)
Voyeurism (watching others)
Voyeurism (your Domme w/others)
Video (watching others)
Video (recordings of you)
Water torture
Waxing (hair removal)
Wearing symbolic jewelry
Whipping
Writing experience


ESSAY QUESTIONS

1) What was/is your greatest fear?
2) What has been your greatest thrill to date as a sub?
3) What are your particular talents of a non-sexual nature?
4) What are your particular talents of a sexual nature?
5) Have you ever been tested for clamydia, gonorrhea, syphilis, HIV, HSV-1, HSV-2, hepatitis C, or any other STD? When? Results?

As the holidays approach there are kids and teens who at Christmas will receive little or nothing. My wife and I each year buy a something for a teen and a younger child. Please take the time and do the same thing. You don’t have to spend a lot, but think of the smile on their face on Christmas.

 

Thank you for your time.

In life we all have to make choices some hard some simple. We just need to take the time and think it through. That’s the thing boy and girls think about the choices one makes.

Time to film a Zombie movie.

 

When your talking to someone and they ask how you are and you don't want to even respond to that question and then change the question to something else. Then something is wrong with you.

 

I was talking to someone the last few weeks and even with my grandmother being so ill I still to some time to talk to a slave. I asked her time and time again how she was and she avoided the question. I think she needs to stop and look at what she truly wants

I hate it when people play games

For all those looking for a real relationship ask all the right questions that are important to you. Have a list prepared and take the time to get to know them. Remember guy will try and sweet talk you and if they do then a red flag should come up.

 

Be safe  

I spent a wonderful evening at the movies with a sweet and honest submissive. It's always refreshing to spend time with someone that is honest and doesn't play games.

 

Lord, in this holy season of prayer and song and laughter, we praise you for the great wonders you have sent us: for shining star and angel's song, for infant's cry in lowly manger. We praise you for the Word made flesh in a little Child. We behold his glory, and are bathed in its radiance.

Be with us as we sing the ironies of Christmas, the incomprehensible comprehended, the poetry made hard fact, the helpless Babe who cracks the world asunder. We kneel before you shepherds, innkeepers, wisemen. Help us to rise bigger than we are. Amen.

The sister-in-law

 

© 2012 MB

 

My sister-in-law isn't a looker and trust me I'm not trying to be mean. Sue is sweet and kind person that at times suffers from terrible episodes of depression. The hard part with that is we're not close enough to be there for her at the times she needs us. Driving cross country to be there when she needs us isn't an option.

 

In the last few days Sue has been going through some really tough times. She asked me how to tell her husband that 5 minutes in the bedroom isn't enough without hurting his feelings? I told her to be upfront and let him know that she's not trying to hurt him.

 

We talked and talked she told me that she's been talking to someone for weeks that wishes to help her out.  I told her to talk to her husband and let him know what she's going through and she said she had. I told her to be careful because I don't want to see her hurt.

 

A little later Sue told me she was home and heading to bed so I wished her a goodnight.

 

The next day Sue told me he changed his mind because now that she said YES that they we be caught and since he's the town's mayor he didn't want to risk it. Sue was crushed and the way she was talking and I would guess she cried her eyes out.  This broke my heart that a sweet woman who was already was in so much pain was even in more.

 

Yes most would say what she was doing was wrong but she needed to be needed and wanted to be made love to. Yes she loves her husband with all her heart but right now Sue needs more than 5 minutes.

 

For the past 5 years Sue husband Larry and I have texted each other all the time. We've swapped sex stories, photos and videos. Larry loved the adult movies I use to film and I didn't mind sharing them with both of them since it might give them some new ideas.

 

I enjoyed watching Sue and Larrys videos and looking at her photos. I've pictured Sue doing many things and from some of the things have told me I wanted to see her do a gangbang since she told me she's done a 3 some. When I heard she had done that I was like wow no way and was really turned on.

 

So the other day when she was telling me what was going on and needing more I told her next time she comes to town she should let me take her to a swingers club so she can have all the cock she wants. Sue agreed which put a huge smile on my face.

 

Since Sue agreed the next time she comes to town I know of a hotel with a Jacuzzi tub in the rooms I will rent one and she will get all the cocks she can take.

 

On the third day of Sue being here I and her a box and tell her to put it on and nothing else. Sue goes into the bedroom, places the box on the bed and opens it. Inside she finds a spaghetti strap black top, a very short black mini skirt that barely covered her butt and a pair of 4 inch black heals. Dressed in only those 3 items she emerged from the room.

 

I took her hand and led Sue to the car and we were on our way. With few words spoken we soon arrived at a small bar where we sat in a dimly lit corner where few could see us. While I sipped my Coke  and Sue her Rum and Coke I handed her some bills and told her to go put some music on in the juke box.

 

As I expected most of the eyes in the joint were soon focused on her and the longer she stood there looking through the playlist the more men were getting closer to her, acting like they were looking at the playlist on the juke box.

 

Soon Sue was back at our table and the few tables around us were full and I can see the guys were really looking her over. One even dropped something near our table and he had to bend over to pick it up so I'm guessing he wanted to look up her skirt. I could tell Sue was getting a little excited from all the attention because her nipples were looking very erect through her blouse.

 

I reach over and cup her left breast and look in her eyes as they come up to look at me. After a few moments of playing with her nipple I slide my hand down to her skirt and up between her legs to feel the heat between her thighs. As my hand gets closer to her mound I can really feel how hot she is getting. Sue responds to my touch and parts her legs even more as my fingers reach for her clit. Sue's eyes close and soon her head tips back slowly as my finger slowly caresses her clit. I can see all eyes on her and smiles on all the guys faces as I do this.

 

After removing my fingers from her swollen clit Sue's eyes open to realize all eyes were on her. I lean in and whisper in her ear to pull her skirt up to her hips and to turn her chair to the right about 90 degrees so all that want to see her can. After taking another sip of her drink she does as she was asked.

 

All eyes were on Sue and her exposed pussy. I told the guys they may touch her for the next 5 minutes but there cocks stay put away. In no time flat the guys surrounded her and the straps from her blouse were pull down exposing her massive breasts and erect nipples. Hands were all over them cupping and pinching her nipples making her moan and bite her lower lip.

 

Others were playing with her pussy and one guy slid 3 fingers in deep making her whole body shake and thrust her hips forward as she cum.

 

The 5 minutes were up and the guys all stopped and I took Sues hand and led her back to the care where I took her to the hotel I had things all setup.

 

While we are waiting for the guys to arrive Sue it relaxing in the Jacuzzi tub when we hear a knock at the door. There stand 5 guys ready to make Sue's day. They all come in and introduce them self's to us and start stripping off their clothes.

 

Soon two of the guys are in the tub with Sue and you can see by her face that she was enjoying what they're doing to her under the water. It wasn't long after that Sue was out of the tub and on the bed legs spread wide and being eaten out. While two other guys were sucking on her nipples making her moan even more.

 

A few minutes later Sue was on her hands and knees taking all 9 inches of a cock and had another in her mouth. Her breasts swinging under her as she was getting pounded like never before. You can hear her slurping on that cock in her mouth at the same time.

 

All I can think about is I'm glad she is finely getting what she's been needing as I smile on making sure I capture every shot.

 

When the first two guys are ready for a break Sue gets one the third guys cock and rides away, bouncing up and down like threes no tomorrow. You can hear by her moaning she's about to cum for a second time. As her head goes back you see her body tense up and she freezes up and stops breathing for what was only a few seconds but seemed like forever.

 

Sue still on that cock now laying more a top him and soon finds a second cock entering her already filled pussy. With a little gasp from her lips Sue had never had 2 cocks in her at the same time let alone 2 in the same hole. It didn't take long before Sue was cuming again and this time she grabbed a pillow to scream into as the pounding continued.

 

It didn't take long before both men were going as deep as they could go shooting their loads deep inside her tight pussy. Both men had held onto her tightly making sure she took their entire shaft.

 

With their loads spent Sue rolled off the bottom man to catch her breath. It didn't take long before Sue found another cock this time right in her face. She eagerly opens her mouth as it enters, pushing in a good six inches before he pulled back. Sue soon found his cock thrusting in and out like a piston as he fucked her hungry mouth. With both breathing hard he shot his load at the back of her throat, causing her to swallow so she didn't gag.

 

Sue in the wanting to clean up Sue jumped into the shower but soon found someone wanted to join her and stepped in behind her taking the bar of soap from her hand to wash her back. Sue thought it was nice that someone wanted to help but she soon learned he had something else in mind as placed one of her legs on the side of the tub and told her to lean forward. Sue felt his hand on her pussy and his fingers rubbing on her clit.

 

It didn't take long before Sue's clit was throbbing again and her legs began to shake as she was about to cum again but before she could his fingers slipped away. Sue soon learned what was about to come when she felt his cock pressing against her tight butthole. Causing her to gasp as it entered and not knowing how large it was she soon found out as there was 10 inches deep in.

 

Sue's leg slipped down and she braced her arms against the wall for with each thrust she felt like she was going to topple over. Each thrust sent shivers up her spine and took her breath away but she truly loved it.

 

After 20 minutes of having her sexy ass pounded he gripped her hips even tighter and with one last hard thrust he unloaded deep as can be making Sue moan very loud. Still trying to catch her breath Sue rinsed herself off.

 

For the next half hour Sue and the guys relaxed in the Jacuzzi recovering from the fun they were having. Sue found soon found a cock in her face knowing what he wanted Sue opened her mouth and took it deep in her mouth, sucking with all her might. In no time at all Sue soon received a load at the back of her throat.

 

The guys soon had Sue back on the bed with her lying on top of another cock riding it like it was the end of the world. Sue found another cock coming at her from behind and thinking she was going to get two in her pussy again she tried to relax but found this time it was against her butt hole and with a little pressure her hole opened up again letting it go deep as can be. Sue froze in place taking a deep breath getting accustomed to its size. Minutes later Sue felt her pussy and ass getting pounded, hard and fast making it hard to take a good deep breath.

 

To be continued  

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