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Female Submissive, 19, Portland, Connecticut
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Male Dominant, 21, Suffolk, Virginia
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Female Switch, 40, Alameda, California
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About LoveSapiosexual
I am an in shape, highly intelligent, charmingly funny, successful artist who responds strongly to female empowerment. I'm willing and open minded to be led anywhere so long as I respect the woman that's leading. Barking out orders at me within five seconds without us connecting as real people first is not only contrived but it's not going to work. The essential component to having me submit and recognize your dominance is not that you immediately have a bitchy attitude nor that you expect me to disregard my intellect in favor of blind obedience.
I genuinely crave variables of submission but I'm not dumb nor desperate. This site is populated by an enormous amount of fakes, dudes playing female and 'online escorts' working the 'domme' angle. A certain level of transparency and foundational development is not disrespectful if one intends to develop a real connection that leads to real time involvement. This seems so obvious that it is remedial...but the internet seems to birth a kind of anonymous viciousness that would never play out in the initial, real world courtship phase. And for me, whether it's online or in person, I crave a synthesis of elemental forces that fuse together to create an ecstatic hyperreality. I want to go beyond the beyond and dissolve into, as Edgar Allan Poe says, "A dream within the dream"
I LOVE intelligent females with a predatorial appetite. I love friendly people with dark, kinky wits. I love the idea of certain cuckold dynamics. I LOVE female empowerment and her pleasure coming first. I can be into harsh degradation, humiliation, mean, evil bitches, the escalation of tension through forms of denial and delayed gratification, all of that, makes my nervous system happy - if it's done in a way that the transition from preliminary courtship to darker magic is smooth. I will know pretty fast if you are the real thing or some dude. |
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Update: In the last two days I've contacted about 20 'dommes' after taking the time to read their profiles - I actually read them and journals - and I am polite, sincere and articulate. I have taken my time to not copy and past a general letter but rather craft a little unique greeting and so far this is what I have gotten back: 10 responses demanding money and immediate servitude, 8 no responses and 2 sane responses that then turned out to probably be guys or deluded weirdos. This site is proving again it's been infiltrated by cyber hookers looking for supplemental money or gross weirdos.
And yet...I remain an optimist. I am only looking for one actual female worthy of my honest commitment. |
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A lot of these profiles sound like really bad fiction. Does that make me upptity that I'm so discerning? Hmmmm. |
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Male Submissive, 38, Annapolis, Maryland
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Male Dominant, 44, Cleveland, Ohio
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Female Switch, 40, Greenville, Ohio
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Female Submissive, 45
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Male Dominant, 30, Orangeburg, South Carolina
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Male Dominant, 39, Bethesda, Maryland
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Male Submissive, 55, Bay Area, California
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Male Dominant, 45, Columbus, Ohio
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Male Dominant, 33
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Female Dominant, 45, Newark, Arkansas
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Male Dominant, 35, Dearbron, Michigan
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Female Dominant, 49, Midlothian, Virginia
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