LovelySerena36

I am looking forward to making new friends and finding a Dom or Master who is interested in seeing if we are compatible. I want chemistry- something living and dynamic- that spark, which can be physical, emotional, and/or spiritual.

I have a tablet and am using my iPhone to communicate. If you would like to chat, please use CM chat or yahoo messenger. I am lovely_serena36 at ym . Looking forward to hearing from you, Serena 

Update 2/1/14: I don't have a working webcam nor a vehicle.

This is a work in progress.? i am currently looking for someone who:?

1. is male.
2. is?single (i.e., not married).
3. is?a non-smoker (because i'm allergic to smoke).
4. currently does not have any other subs or slaves.
5. wants and needs sexual contact.
6. should have a part of himself that is sadistic because i do identify as being a masochist.
7. has more experience in the BDSM lifestyle than myself.??i want someone one to teach/train me; not the other way around.
8. wants LTR, eventually.?
9. can conversate, either in person or via email.? Conversations take two people and is NOT one-sided.
10. likes company; likes to cuddle; wants to be around me more than alone.
11. still believes that there is more to learn from and about this BDSM lifestyle; in other words, someone who does NOT believe that they have learned everything already.
12. is willing to live this lifestyle 24/7 whenever possible.
13. is willing to laugh, to have fun, to bring joy.
14. knows about boundaries, how to set them, and how to respect them.
15. will give me assignments to help me be a better person and slave.
16. knows what they want and are not just trying this lifestyle or role on for the first time.
17. is more interested in a one-on-one relationship than?poly at this point in time.

If anybody has specific questions regarding any of these items, feel free to write me.

?

I would like to share with possible future Masters my view on calling myself a slave.  If i have never met you, i am not your slave.  i am serena.  i will call you Master if you want, out of respect.  However, you are not my Master yet.  i am not your slave yet.

i believe in getting to know each other before labeling the relationship.  Chemistry has to be there.  You need to inspire my submission.  i would like to think it might start out as friends, then dominants, and then hopefully Master.

Unfortunately, i do not trust easily.  You have to earn my trust.  i'm not one of those people who automatically trust.  i hold back judgement until i get to know you to see if you are worthy of my trust.  Once that trust is given, it's totally given.  i'm not going to give up total control to someone that i have just met.

i am once again single.  i will protect myself.  i will ask for references before meeting in person.  i am willing to provide personal references also upon request.  i am involved in my local BDSM communities.  i am more comfortable playing in public than in my house for the first time.

i do have limits with people i just have met.  You have not earned that right yet of total power over me yet.  My lists of limits on here are a starting place-- a way of sharing who i am and what i like.  Once you become my Master, those limits, of course, are strictly guidelines for my Master to do with or not do with as he wishes.

i am a slave.  What does this mean to me?  This means my primary job is to make my Master happy, to anticipate his needs, and to serve all his needs in all ways through immediate obedience.  This is a 24/7 vocation.

i do not work.  i have time to work on the M/s relationship.  i like homework to help me a better slave.  i do NOT like housework.  i do like to cook healthily.  i am not perfect so there is room to improve.  *big smile*

If you are looking for a LTR, please be single.  i'm not interested in married men for LTR. 

If you have read this far, thank you for your time.

serena

1.   Interrogation scene

6.   Fisting

7. Role play

8.   Orgasm control (denial/ on command/ hypnosis)

9.   Brandings

10.        Wrestling

11.        Insertables

12.        Chastity belts

13.        Anal play

14.   Resistance play

15.   TENS unit

GREEN LIMITS (I love it!)

1.    Knife play

2.   Breathe play

3.   Single tails

4.   Needle play/ Play piercings (blood ok)

5.   Violet wand

6.   Bondage play ? rope/cuffs

7.   Nipple torture

8.   Gags (narrow- TMJ/jaw issues)

9.   Rough impact play

10.        Mind play

11.        Hair pulling

12.        Biting

13.        Floggers (thudding rather than stinging)

14.        Hot wax

15.        Blind folds

16.        Mummification play

17.        Fire play

18.        Canes (not my favorite)

19.        Spanking (not my favorite)

1.   No children

2.   No animals

3.   No scat

4.   No golden showers

5.   No blood play

6.   No age play

7.   No humiliation play

8.   No pressure points

9.   No calling me baby or girl or pet