LoveHeals60

Do you want to be in love? I do.

I've seen every approach there is on here. I've tried more than a few. Obviously, since I'm still looking, none of them worked. I haven't gotten desperate enough to lie yet. Hopefully I never will. I've met women, had a few relationships, none of them worked.

There is a lot of anger on here. A lot of distrust. Probably a lot of it is justified. I'm not sure that expressing it helps though, as the angry people are all still around. So after a long absence, I decided to just try bringing it back to basics. I want a woman to love, and to love me in return. There, I said the L word. I even put it in my name. I think that if all these angry people could put their anger aside, they might find that love cures all wounds.

People seem to have the wrong priorities. This one wants pain. That one wants to be a slut. The next wants to be owned by a red headed fireman from Oklahoma. All are great goals, if that’s what makes you happy. I just have my doubts that those are the biggest pieces of the happiness pie.

I know that I would not be happy in a vanilla relationship. It's not so much the vanilla, as that I would have little in common with a woman who didn't want all the wonderful things that bdsm brings to a relationship.

But *not vanilla*, leaves one whole hell of a lot of room. Yes, I have preferences. Yes I have limits. I definitely have certain characteristics that I need to have in a woman I could fall in love with. Smart, trustworthy, kinky, reliable, confident, secure, adventurous are a few that come to mind. I prefer women who are 18-50, as long as they are mature enough to know what they want and make life changing decisions. I prefer women who take pride in their appearance. That doesn't mean anorexic or super-model material.

As far as sub vs. slave, poly vs. monogamous, tpe vs. bedroom only, and everything in between, those things are mostly negotiable. Yes, I checked that I'm open to relationships with dominant or switch women as well. I'm not sure that I believe that love conquers all, but it sure as hell seems like good motivation to try.

So there it is. You can't force it, but at least you can agree that it's what most of us really want. That’s what I really want. Someone to kiss me after work, and mean it. Someone who submits because it’s ME, not because I’m the only man who pays attention to her. Someone to take care of, someone to need me, someone to play with, someone to hold hands with. Someone to bend over and drop trow baby, cause there’s gonna be a butt wompin tonight. Oops. Disregard that last. Sometimes it just slips out….

They approved my pictures. Some of them, anyway. The moderators who bring you advertising with graphic pictures of women getting fucked by machines, wouldn't approve the picture of my collar because it doesn't meet their standards. I had to put a picture of me up as my primary, despite any desire for privacy I might have. So I used the one of me with my violet wand. Yes it's me, not that it makes much difference. It did come out rather cool, but it's the collar that I wanted to put on my profile.

Isn't it beautiful? It's made from 8 gold rope chains. For vanillas, it will just look like a necklace, but for anyone into BDSM, the meaning of the knot will be obvious. And because it's made from rope chains, it will tug at your hair all the time, reminding you that you are owned. It's missing something, though. It's empty. It has nothing within to give it meaning. Wouldn't you like to rescue it from it's loneliness? It would be even more lovely, if your neck was inside it. Applications are welcome. Just understand that when I put it around your neck, it will be for life.