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Female Submissive, 37, Finksburg, Maryland
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About LoveDDD
handle with care (Love is easily marked)
Okay do you have a different vision of Dom and Sub than the stereotypes? Are you smarter than the average bear? If dominant and submissive are adjectives that can make the dynamics in a loving relationship hotter than fire in the bedroom, and can even warm up everyday activities, trips and vacations as well, hello.
Coffee (or tea) i think is relatively harmless, as is making a new friend if the chemistry is not there.
Someone said to me that stating in a first email that i seek a serious and fun long term relationship including love, one to one, is offputting (this from the guy with a woman's butt on his face in his picture, go figure)... So I will say it here in my profile instead:
I keep getting closer with each new relationship, and i have only had a few... Love and intimacy are precious and I long to share them for eternity with one man. The right one. Thank you, peace and love.
Hmm... If I check "submissive" people think I am into humiliation and serviing, not my game, not knocking it for others- But if i check "switch" they think I am Domme. I'm altogether different, turned on by my partner's brain and heart as much as anything else...
3/28/10: seeking a single available boyfriend first and foremost before anything else, activated this account for someone who wanted to meet... I may deactivate, i already have profiles on another bondage site... No I am NOT trying to get anyone to join another site, just too tired to put all the info i put on OKCupid or Bondage here too, at least for a few weeks. Best wishes. Thank you, Love
...Still under construction
Forgot I had a Loveisalady profile years ago, to be deleted...
PLEASE read last lines BEFORE writing, thanks!
Shy dreamer
ready to work on reality with a trusted friend, find the right one to explore depths never dared...
though not very experienced in some ways, I'm well read/open-minded to many topics, less into judging others' interests than trying to gauge what's for me (see below)
I've written erotic lit but am old-fashioned at heart, and the one for me is a gentleman at least on the surface who knows trying to convince me to come warm his bed will not ensure a shy girl of serious intentions -
he will ask to take me out and get to know me better before revealing the beast within
intimacy is a treasure to be cherished - Love is a lady for a special SINGLE someone who seeks that meaningful long-term multi-layered connection, be it for months, years, or a lifetime...
not "saved for marriage" or even sure I believe in it any more, I have been slow and careful with the few I have trusted - that part of me is not taken casually, but a thing of value soon to belong to only one-
I've seen hints of who I'm for, know he exists... a real man inside, with strong passion for a mind ready to be challenged and ample bosom to feed his hunger at his leisure through the night, never intimidated by a lady's demure character or attempt to hide behind mere obstacles, pounds of flesh
weight is one obstacle I know I can remove myself - but if I meet the one who'd enjoy me before during + after my transformation is complete it may add to a permanent bond and ultimate intimate exchange of trust...
to be taken away from it all by a strong successful Sadist with a passion for making his Love swim laps in the pool by day and submit sweet milk for him, and more, in his bed each night, is a nice fantasy but I'm not looking for a fairytale
whether a Daddy who seeks the little girl to care for and corrupt, or a guy with a great sense of humor looking for the damsel who loves to sit and think perched high upon the edge of the castle wall or run into the sea laughing with friends and learning about herself, well, only Fate knows if I'm destined to meet him here and in what way we will make each other's dreams come true...
no great expectations, just to continue making friends, growing, eventually finding "the one" (ok I guess that'd be great)
(likely to be revised regularly until I twist all my words around in an effort to make it more coherent - please excuse the bad writing and thanks for your time)
shyly, Lady Love
INTERESTS: since they seem to get lumped together I unchecked a lot of my answers and thought I'd try to explain some here-
Nutrition: into low-carb 'cause it's how I lost 17 pounds in 5 weeks after years of hitting a brick wall (mine is sugar); I don't tell others to go without!
Music: well it's easier to say I "live for" music of every kind from jazz classics to pop and rock - raised with a Broadway show almost always on the record player I have to confess I love some show tunes (yay for Over Here + ACL possibly coming back!) but favorites also include rap, metal and folk pieces, they cross all borders-
as most of my interests do :)
PHOTOS:
Big city is "small world", some of us can't be recognized at work but no initial photo seems impersonal, so...
1. Gram on her honeymoon (there's a lot of her in me still...) -1930s?
2. (B+W) After someone special showed me what it's like to be truly taken for the first time... -2004 (If not visible I can send once we talk)
last lines:
TRYING TO BE POSITIVE so the universe can return it to you is hard with no email filters and so many viewpoints - hope to keep the "NOT"s breif -
IF NOT LOCAL or close enough to meet I don't see the point - NOT looking for cyber training, any training for that matter. I've had a wonderful time writing fantasies and emails on another site (feel free to ask), love pen friends, am moving on...
PLEASE NOTE I am NOT bi, bi-curious, poly, slave, slut, bich, ho, dog, maid or servant... Not to knock others' joys or quibble with words (yes a close relationship could grow to feel as intense as serving; NOT what I seek to start). Was going to put it cruder (a sub is a sandwich, submissive an adjective, and slavery illegal - but it just sounds like wordplay) when I read what one said with much more eloquence, if I could paraphrase:
WHAT IT'S ALL ABOUT FOR ME (each his own)is one's confidence in who he is that's a source of power in a relationship... secure in knowing he's in control without needing a kneeling submissive when entering a room, 'Sir" uttered at every statement, pronouns capitalized, eyes diverted...
FOR A REPLY TO EMAIL please have a profile, give a clue mine was read and why you're writing... Tell me if SINGLE if not in your profile... And no tasks, tests or orders if we've not met, please.
If a single male with grasp of reality (I'm not a slave but if you find a good housekeeper can I borrow her?) I promise to reply ASAP ;) In fact if you've written a real email and I haven't replied I'm probably trying to form a thoughtful answer... thanks! |
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