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Female Submissive, 31, lawton, Oklahoma
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Female Submissive, 24, Sudbury
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Male Submissive, 32, birmingham, Alabama
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About LookingForThird
Many couples in the lifestyle seek a third, or a poly household. It is a journey in honesty and communication. Sir and i have traveled the path for some time, having play partners, dating people, 90 day contracts, and even a live in. Every single experience was wonderful and educational in it's own way. It's also helped me define what W/we seek.
W/we seek a sexual creature. One that loves BDSM play, and who's libido drives her. W/we want to use that, and other things W/we learn, to build the sexual slave W/we want. This is all W/we seek in a play partner or someone to date.
However, should things move forward, W/we also seek a worker. One that finds happiness in work. One that is thankful every single day there is work to do (for some people have none...). One that understands that if W/we are giving her on-line time, goals with rewards and punishments...that it takes time from O/our lives. There is only so much time in a day. Consequently, this portion must be mutually fulfilling. If W/we have been dating, and have a play party..W/we expect you to come early to help. W/we expect you to take your own dishes, certainly, to the sink. W/we expect you to stay late and help clean up. I, personally, need someone that is MORE OCD than I am. I know what I like, but I can't direct every single thing. I need someone that sees the chaos better than I do. Sir and I work more than 50 hours a week, every week. To give of O/our time is a big thing; a huge consideration. But W/we know now that if it is one sided, it will never last. If the "play" or "date" portion gets more involved in D/s, but not more involved in the workings of O/our life, W/we will tire of it.
This doesn't mean W/we don't direct. But there are "bustlers" out there, and those that do the least amount possible. W/we need a bustler. O/our pace is fast, and you can either be at that pace, or serve others.
W/we are fun, and professional and established. W/we are 24/7, and balance all areas of O/our life. I do enjoy friends, and couples, and play partners... this lifestyle is simply tons of fun! But that doesn't mean W/we don't keep an eye open for more... |
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