Pray you find what your looking for....

another topic/thought:

If you’re married or already involved any way to another, if you are emotional unavailable (not able to commit), solve those problems before you try to take on someone else.
I am very sorry for people in a loveless sexless marriage/realtionship my heart goes out to them. I cant imagine a life trapped like that. My thoughts are to Use Your skills to change it... Make her your new very challenging sub. No you may not reveil a perfect slave but you may get a life back. Talk to your wifep/partner! Treat her with love, kindness and admiration she will be more receptive... I promise.. at book stores mostly christian, there is a book it’s called LOVE DARE.. It will work for most. It can be a fun and challenging 40 days for both of you. That will open you up to a new world of each other. Love and Respect by Dr. Emerson. http://www.loveandrespect.com/ is another excellent book. One more place to try 5 love languages by Gary Chapman. http://www.5lovelanguages.com/assessments/. Take the quiz and see how you receive and give love. Have your partner do the same It will reviel a world about her you may not have known and now have information to reach her in ways you had not before. Your the dom.. you know how to use this information to your advantage..smiles.. ps we (women) love that about you...
Sometimes the solutions for what seem like impossible problems have simple answers that create huge changes.
Another hint, if you spend as much time focused on her as you do this you would have a wife/GF back... Bold statement,not very submissive... But very true.. winks.. You might learn from it.. which is my hope.. not to lecture you or tell you what you already know.. smiles
Good luck because You deserve the best... we all do