I am and have been as long as I can recall a dom. In both thought and action. I am not a peacock who needs to preen and show off so that others can see that which is within me. In fact I despise the all show aspect of our thing and the faux superiority. To me that's just a lot of silly posturing with little or nothing to back it up. So I am, admittedly, not for everyone.

I am looking for those who have some sense of themselves and what they want.

Being open and ok with who you are is key as is a solid sense of being up for whatever naturally occurs. I seek adventure and a real sub or switch who knows who she is. I am not a game player. Direct and honest are the best ways to engage. I am open to talk to anyone as I have an affinity for my own.