| |
|
|
Home |
|
|
|
|
Browse |
|
|
|
|
|
Live |
|
|
|
|
Join |
|
Collarspace |
|
|
|
|
Dating |
|
|
|
|
News |
|
|
|
|
Glossary |
|
|
|
|
Mobile |
|
|
|
|
Alt |
|
|
|
|
Safety |
|
|
|
|
Toys |
|
|
|
|
Live BDSM |
|
|
|
|
Resources |
|
|
|
|
Welcome |
|
| |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Login |
|
|
 |
|
 |
|
|
|
|
Male Submissive, 18
|
|
| Back |
| KPM |
| Directory |
| Interests |
|
|
|
| |
|
| |
| |
|
|  | |
|
|
|
|
| |
About llingangel
Let me begin by saying that, like all human beings, I am a work in progress. I'm always working to become the person I'm meant to be...i may never get there, but I'll never stop trying. That being said, this profile is also a work in progress and is going to evolve as I do.
I can better tell you what I do not want or am not interested in than I can tell you what I do want, so let's start there...
Do not assume that because I have a submissive nature that I am a doormat. Nor do I suffer from low self esteem. I am intelligent, articulate and opinionated.
Do not assume that because I identify as a submissive that I want to be a slave. I have no desire to wait on anyone hand and foot. I don't believe slave and submissive are the same thing.
Do not assume because I am submissive that I I will submit to you just because you say you are dominant.
Do not assume that I will fall to my knees because you say you are a dominant. You are not MY dominant.
I will not respond to any messages that begin with a overtly sexual tone. I am more than tits and ass. Take time to tell me about you the person, and take time to ask about me as a person.
I will not respond to messages without a photo. Period. I don't have a camera is not an excuse. Its 2010, even my 10 year old has a camera.
I will not respond to messages that are full of spelling and grammatical errors. I prefer my men educated. Please take the time to use spell check.
Please do not ask me for my yahoo id or phone number in your first message. I won't give it to you until we've exchanged a few emails.
Please do not send me pictures of your penis. I know you have one. Yours is no more or less wonderful than anyone
else's.
Just because this is an alternative lifestyle website doesn't mean manners are optional. I don't like vulgar language from strangers. When we have established a relationship it will be different, but until then I am not your bitch, slut, whore or cunt and you are not my sir, master, sire or whatever you desire to be called.
I am a fairly tall woman. If your are under 6' tall I'm not interested. If you are more than 15 or 20 pounds over weight I'm not interested. If you refer to yourslf as "fat" I'm not interested.
I am not interested in men older than 55 unless you look exceptionally young and fit for you age. By the same token I'm not interesred in men under 35.
I am not interested in a poly relationship.
I am not interested in married men, seperated men or those in an "its complicated" situation.
I have a child, a job and am a full time college student. I cannot, nor will I, put anyone ahead of my child or my education so don't ask.
I will not travel to meet you until we've had extensive online and phone conversations. You must travel to me at least initially. When and if we decide I can travel to you, it will be at your expense. I wii not stay in your home until I feel I can trust you and have met you several times in public places. My safety is important to me and I wiil not take unnecessary risks. I refuse to pay for travel expenses. Been there, done that and won't do it again.
I will absolutely insist on condoms and safe sex until I am fully confident that we are in a committed, exclusive relationship. I am DD free and intend to stay that way. I expext you to be also.
I am also not interested in a man who is not gainfully employed. I am in no position to support a man financially and even if I were I wouldn't do it. Please have a career, a home, a car.
I have many interests and activities I enjoy. You should as well. These are things I will not give up for a relationship. I will not ask you to give up your hobbies or passtimes, I expect the same courtesy from you.
I am not insecure or jealous and I do not need to know where you are or what yo are doing 24/7. We are adults with lives and that should not change should we decide to share our lives with each other.
Communication is paramount to the foundation of any relationship, as are trust and honesty. I expext you to comminicat your wants, needs and desires truthfully and honestly and I will extend the same courtesy to you. I will listen with an open mind and I expect the same from you. There are few thing that cannot be worked out with active listening and open negotiation.
Absolute deal breakers: bad breath, body odor, poor hygiene, bad manners, smoking of any kind, dirty fingernails, drugs or substance abuse, laziness, a dirty/messy house, a criminal record, a mountain of debt, unemployed, narrow mindedness, and if you're just a basi asshat.
Absolute requrements: honesty, integrity, intellegence, sence of humor, confidence, good grooming, kindness, generosity, open mindedness, curiosity, and passion (and I don't mean sexually). Must like kids, theatre and high heels (on me)!
If, after reading all of that, you wish to make contact please do.
|
|
|
|
|
Male Switch, 68, NewBern, North Carolina
|
Male Submissive, 46
|
Male Submissive, 42
|
Male Dominant, 56, ocala, Florida
| | |
Female Submissive, 40, san fransico, California
|
Female Switch, 41, Hermiston, Oregon
|
Female Submissive, 30
|
Female Submissive, 20, NYC, New York
| | |
Female Submissive, 26, Secret, Michigan
|
Male Submissive, 49
|
Submissive Couple, 28
|
Male Dominant, 50, columbia sc, South Carolina
| | |
|
|
|
|
|
| |
