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About LlewGoch
For me Ds isn't just about what type of chains you use, or what punishments and rewards you believe in. Sure, they are a part of Ds and something important to talk about, but ultimately Ds is about much more than that. It's about how you feel with a person - the connection; the trust; and the desire to embark on a very special journey with someone who is on the same wavelength. And it's the idea that Ds is a journey that is key for me. Regardless of how experienced you are (I've been involved in Ds for over 20 years) Ds between two people is always unique. And with any worthwhile journey its not just the final destination that you look forward to but the way you get there as well (although I am imagining a luxurious first class cabin rather than a packed commuter tube train!). It's a journey that is sometimes playful, sometimes tough, but always fun - where you can't wait to see what is around the next corner.
With any journey there are always expectations. I expect a sub to feel submissive within herself (not roleplay) and give herself fully, without holding back, being open and honest (therefore Ds is the ultimate in intimacy as well as trust). She must want to obey and please and feel disappointment within herself if she cant succeed in a task. She SHOULDN'T ever want to fail a task as she craves punishment as personally I think that is missing the point of Ds.
But what can a sub expect of me? Someone who will listen, respect limits and be warm and caring as well as strict and unwavering. But someone also who will push and challenge a sub, not accepting anything less than 100% effort or commitment. And someone who believes that Ds should enhance a sub and fill her with pride of what she is and what she has achieved.
If you think we sound on the same wavelength then please do drop me a line as I would certainly love to hear from you. |
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Male Dominant, 61
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Male Switch, 46, melbourne
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Female Submissive, 28, Edmond, Oklahoma
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Male Dominant, 31
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Male Dominant, 45
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Male Submissive, 54, Albuquerque, New Mexico
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Female Submissive, 55, Sea Isle City, New Jersey
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Male Submissive, 44, indianapolis, Indiana
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Female Submissive, 30
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Male Dominant, 46
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Male Dominant, 42, London/Cardiff
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Male Switch, 25, Berlin
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