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Male Submissive, 57, St.Paul, Minnesota
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About lixalot77
i am an ex college basketball player, with a college degree, and still enjoy athletics though active participation is limited to golf and working out at the gym, with occasional bike riding. i have been playing the guitar since my early twenties, having played with a rock band for about four years. i lived in Florida for 14 years and love the warm weather and particularly the water and the sun. i have since relocated back to Minnesota, having been here for 11 years.
i have actually been a submissive most of my life..just suppressed as the corporate ladder was being climbed (to a certain level anyway), my wife did not understand the needs and feeling i had been suppressing, which drove that part of me more underground, but stronger in urges - i am since divorced.
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My journey started when i was still living in Florida - i had been wrestling with the idea of attending a munch to start my journey into the BDSM lifestyle and embellish my submissive side.? i finally got up the courage to attend one, at the urging of a Domme i had been talking to online.? After getting over the initial uneasiness, one particular Domme and i struck up a conversation that took the night to a whole new level.? We/we left the munch and stopped for a couple of glasses of wine - about four each and talked, laughed and really got to know each other.? She asked if i was interested in seeing her playroom/dungeon that she had set up in her house.? i said sure and off we went.? Turned out she lived only minutes from where we were, but she said i had to be blindfolded for security reasons, as we had just met.?
Upon reaching Her house, i was led, still blindfolded into her house where the blindfold was removed.? She offered me another glass of wine and then we went to her playroom.? After idle chat of about 15-20 minutes, it seemed liked her whole demeanor changed.? She told me to strip, the smile was replaced by?a very stern, almost scary look - before i could even think i was standing before her naked - my cock totally erect.? She handcuffed my hands behind my back and told me to kneel.? my heart was pounding, i was gasping to breathe, not realizing that this was actually happening.? She then scooped up my clothes and left the room, with me asking what was going on.
She came back with a leather halter top, short skirt and a riding crop.? That was the start of a four hour introduction to the world of BDSM.? in the next four hours, i was brought to the brink of orgasm about six times, never allowed relief, i was attached to a St Andrews cross, flogged, nipple clamped, blindfolded and gagged.? things were done to me that i had no idea what was going on, but i knew then that this was to be my path.? i spent the next six months with her, spending more time serving her each week."? That was my first experience.....
The first Domme, and really only,?i was with for about six months.? the relationship started off rather gradual, after the first night - which as i described was rather intense.? i actually needed almost a week to recover from that one extensive experience and she knew it.? She called to ask how i was feeling, if i had recovered and what i thought about my role as a submissive at this point.? i explained that while i had been subjected to more than i ever had thought possible, it did definitely was a path that i felt i was cut out for and wanted to pursue.? she told me to come over the next night and discuss things, she wanted me to think about being her submissive and if i was interested, to know the rules and the ramifications for breaking the rules.? when i arrived that night, i was told to strip and that when i came into her house, i was always to strip, get on my knees when totally naked and then either crawl to her or if she was standing in the entry to kiss her outstretched hand.? she then explained that i was never to look at her or into her eyes unless i was told to.? if i did i would be punished.? at that she took me to her dining room table, bent me over the table, tied my ankles to the table legs and my arms, outstretched to the other end of the table top.? this will be one of your punishment positions - she then proceeded to first spank my ass, then flog me, then finished off with a couple of smacks from a riding crop....definitely got my attention.
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Eventually, she also gave me a list of household chores that i was to do every week - and i was to be at her house at least three days a week and more if required.
We were getting very close in many ways when her mother had a stroke.? She was originally from New York and had to relocate back to take care of her mother.? In the mean time I was offered a job in Minnesota and we just agreed the timing was not right to continue so we mutually split. |
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