livinandlearnin

have been doing alot of learning and thinking since I have been on here and have come to the realization that I'm seeking one who is probably not out there. He will be a man sure of whom he is...He will be strong when I am weak.. he will show tenderness and caring when I am upset... he will show humor when I am joking.. He will be able to laugh when things are funny... He will know how to have a good time and be happy when we are... He will know when to be serious... He will know when to be "silly"....He will be in charge at all times but not make me feel worthless or degraded because of my need to have a man in charge...He will be patient but not a push over.... He will be able to help me learn to be a better me... He will be firm and strict but not mean....He will be understanding of my faults and help me to overcome them... He will be able to care about me ... He will be trustworthy and know that it does take time for trust to develop... I hope you understand the things I am trying to say...if you can please message me if not please dont waste our time.