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Male Switch, 45, prescot
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Male Submissive, 34, Liverpool
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Dominant Couple, 37, liverpool
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About LiveRaven
I feel the hunger growing inside me. The hunger to experience more. The hunger to live in a world without fear of the 'other'. The hunger to watch someone lose all sanity in pleasure. The hunger to incite fear. The hunger to be free from my own illusions. The hunger to be me.
I am a Dom and i am a Sub. I thrive on seeing someone derive pleasure from my actions. I expect a bit of a fight (physical or emotional). If you are a Sub and you don't know how to push back, I'm not the Dom for you. If you are a Dom and you expect me to just take it on faith that I am yours, I am not the sub for you. I am into service, both for me and from me. I used to wait tables, and I am a perfectionist. These things help me to understand the precision I require in my brand of service.
I am looking for a sub/slave/pet who is service oriented, and is looking to be trained. It would be nice if she were to be interested in my girlfriend/toy as well, you can find her profile through mine. While play does not always have to happen with her present, for now, sex will include her.
I find myself capitalizing Dom and Sub. These are both titles and are both integral to this lifestyle. Two sides of the same coin if you will. I see everyone as a person first. While I dream of a 24/7 lifestyle, there is a point where the collar has to come off and things negotiated or re-negotiated. I expect a lot out of the women I play with. I expect a high level of self respect, your gift of submission to me speaks to your taste in people. If I am the Dom you are looking for then your desire to explore and learn must be high, and of course interest in my toy as well makes life better.
I also seek to explore my Submissive side. I am not interested in pain, I am interested in service, mostly of the sexual kind, but I do love to clean and cook.
On a completely less serious side note. Recently I had the pleasure of attending a talk given by Princess Kali, and it was amazing, but the one thing I took away from it was that it is ok to be goofy. This lifestyle is not all seriousness and being strict. If that is what you want, then by all means, I can deliver, but I had to say it somewhere, laughter in the middle of a scene can be and usually is fun, even if it gets punished.
Honesty. I have to say something about honesty. If I meet you, I will trust you to a degree. I am one of those people who commands honesty. I don't care if you raped and killed my cat, ok well I do, but if you are honest about it, I will react differently than when I find out through other means. I have stopped talking to friends altogether when I found out they told me a big lie. No need to tell them, just walked away. I need to know that my subs are going to tell me that something hurt too much. I need to know that my subs are going to be honest about what they want to try and what they are scared of. I can help you through a lot of fear, but I have to know it is there to do so.
Awesome, I think that is it.
nope, beauty. All of us have beauty, and the conventional view of what is beautiful is only ONE way to view things. While I have to keep a standard appearance due to jobs I am trying to get. Yet I feel most comfortable around people with colored hair and a strong like of radically different beauty.
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So someone recently told me that they are not worth my time. I have a few issues with that... First, isn't it my choice who I "waste" my time on? My life is hectic and busy, mostly due to school and the fact that sitting still has never been my thing. i love life, and I'm going to live it. So hey, if you are piqued by anything I say, I suggest you act on it. Life is too lovely to not do what we want.
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In the short time I have been here I have read a lot and learned so much. It is interesting the various different levels of involvement with this lifestyle. The more I learn about it the less uncomfortable I feel. I always knew I liked to control her, I just never realized that there were terms and words for all the things I do. So I guess new to the communities, but not some of the practices. Some of this is second nature to me.
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