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LiveforControl

LiveForyouBi
Male Switch, 23, Ontario
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*** Adding a rule: you may only email me if it has been at least 24 hours since your last orgasm. I believe a submissive should be well wound-up, enthusiastic, and attentive. I am not implying ownership or control, only an expression of mutual interest and lifestyle choices. Begin each email with a statement of the number of hours since your last orgasm. The larger the number the greater your priority in my attention and reply.

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I am exceedingly creative and devious in plans and schemes; all to your torment and my enjoyment of your suffering for me. I am very detailed and love tasks and instructions. I know what I want and desire from you. As for getting started, I am very easy to talk to and you will not have any difficulty with our conversations even if you are shy - as long as you are willing and enthusiastic.

While real time is a world unto itself, I admit that I do enjoy online D/s, as I have a fertile imagination and love control perhaps above all other things in this realm. To me, this all happens between the ears before it happens between the legs: i.e., I am not looking for "quickies" or just sex. I want to know, have, and control my girl, once I decide we have the necessary/essential connection.

However, I don't believe in leaping into anything. D/s takes time to develop and you don't start off calling someone names! Frankly, I don't want someone I don't know to call me "Sir" or "Master" or any other name until I've earned it and they are referring to me specifically with the respect I have earned. I believe that same goes for any submissive/slave - I want to know her before I adopt any particular idiom for her. I look at it like buying flowers for a first date. Sure, it might seem like a nice gesture - and they are pretty, but it is so much more meaningful when you buy flowers for someone you know (or are getting to know), and you pick out flowers that you know she likes - or even that you think suit who you are learning she is. Of course, in the D/s realm, might be nice to pick flowers you know will sting nicely when you whip her with them later. (I love the mix of erotic and kinky. The complexity of D/s is so damn sexy. It touches places within us that nothing else does.) I would love to hear how D/s makes you feel. I am interested in so much more than the physical.

However.... lol.... The physical is important and attraction is essential. For me, as to the physical, I am tall, good looking, and very fit. I have a public and professional job and do not want to put my photo up. However, I will be happy to send you photos so you know to whom you are speaking.

If you just tried to chat with me, I just missed your link. Try again. I'd like to chat.  :)
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