Lionheart61

I enjoy bondage and lots of other things, but I'm not really into pain (unless you really want me to flog you mercilessly). The sight of an attractive woman tied up and unable to resist as I play with her is a powerful turn on. Making your sub crawl or lick your boots just for the sake of it is a powerful turn-off.

I want to feel my partner fall asleep in my arms and wake the next morning rubbing herself against me as we both smile at the way we hunger for more. I want to find someone who will be an erotic equal, and wants to experiment and explore with an equal, wherever that takes us.

I think that many of the "conventions" of bdsm do not accurately describe the realities of life. Sometimes you should do things to please me. Sometimes it should be the other way around. We have to design our own framework for life rather than blindly following other people's rules.

Feel free to write if you want to know more (there's no rule that says I should always make the first move)...