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Female Submissive, 21, New Zealand
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Female Submissive, 25
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Female Submissive, 30, Marion, Michigan
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About lilkat23
hi I am kat I am very active in my local bdsm community and attend as may events as I can. I seek something very special and very hard to find but I know it is out there for me I want an owner and lover in one and someone who can be my everything and I there's.
im a very active person enjoy a very wide variety of things in and out of the lifestyle I am most like a cat in my personality. I am always working on different projects and looking for someone to keep up with me and enjoy things with.
heres a little about me and my past
Started off the lifestyle in high school experimenting and when I graduated moved to cali with a friend and in a year and a half frequented dungeons and got to try a ton of things and get a lot of experience. Then I moved around for a few years in different relationships and figuring out what I want and need in life. I now know I am a baby girl and brat a lot of the time and need a lot of different things to be complete I was happiest in a true poly house but due to fear and relationship issues I left the relationship and now hope to find someone or a group I fit with and can be complete again once more. |
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what do you do when your service heart is broken?
I have spent a lot of time reflecting recently and figuring out who I have become verse who I was and who I want to be again. I love to serve in many ways I always have but due to my willingness to serve I have been used and abused most of my life and thrown aside in the end. I am a strong independent women and I am more then able to take care of myself and handle any situation I don't need others to rely on. I am also broken and alone in the world I still have a service heart but not sure that I am still capable of truly serving again on the level I once had. every time your heart is broken a piece is left behind and after awhile there's not any left I hope that the pieces can be put back together by the rite person and I can be whole again. |
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poly
I have done poly on and off my entire adult like (starting in high school till now) and have relised a few key things.
its not just about you
by this I mean it is not just about having all the partners and sex u want. it is about having more then one true and deep connection and love be it 2 or 10 is irrelevant.
there is no wrong way
in this lifestyle be it poly or not everyone lives different lives and sees the lint
its ok to be you
it really is ok to just be yourself and put yourself out there a little bit and see who really cares and loves you
you are enough
I have been all over the usa and so many times seen people leave great relationships behind including myself because they thought they were not enough be it due to there partner having other partners or other reasons you have to know you are enough for yourself first or no one will think that you are.
the energy you give the world will come back at you
I learned this a long time ago and have recently been reminded that if you bring good energy and a smile to the world that is what you will get back and vise verse. not to say just because you are happy and good that bad things wont happen but you will be better able to handle them
just some random ramblings
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I want to be your addiction.
Your cup of coffee in the morning
Your sleeping pill at night.
I want to be your drug of choice.
Your heroin
Your vodka
Your cigarette
Your cigar
Or whatever else you might like to smoke
I want you to jones for me when I'm not there.
I want to be the thing you think about
When you should be thinking about
Something else
Something that should be more important
Something business related
Yeah, I want to be that thing.
I've seen a lot of talk about
Priorities
And options
However, the wanting I want from you
Goes far beyond that.
I want to be a necessity.
That thing you would grab
If your house was on fire
And you could only save one thing?
That's the thing I want to be
I want to be the one you are always looking for
No matter where you are
And no matter the fact
I couldn't
Shouldn't
Possibly be there.
The thing that's always in the
Corner of your mind
The whole of your heart
I want my name to dance on the tip
Of your tongue
Always.
Can I be the one?
Can I be that thing?
Can I be your necessity?
Can I be your addiction? |
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