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Dominant Couple, 40, BASILDON
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Male Dominant, 40, NSW
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About ligateurre
I am going to try and do this in 2 parts. The first part will be my BDSM profile. The second part will be my vanilla profile. Why? Because most of us have both parts to our personality and our lifestyle that we must integrate into one, unless we live a BDSM 24/7 lifestyle, which I do not, nor do I seek one. PART ONE I prefer to be the Dominant person in a traditional male/female relationship. I am intelligent, imaginative, creative, adventurous, self confident and strong-willed. However, I am not arrogant, nor do I act in an abusive manner toward my submissive. I find that to have a woman totally give herself to me...her mind, body, and soul…is so exciting to me…it is such a loving act on her part. I am sensitive to her needs, but I want to help her learn to expand her limits...to push her boundaries...to teach her about herself and to grow with her, in a loving, trusting and mutually satisfying D/s relationship. I must confess that the vanilla approach as the sole approach to relationships and sex I have found to be boring and unimaginative. It was only when I discovered the D/s lifestyle that I learned that what I had within me was a drive that was fueled by a desire to lead and sexually dominate women...You know, sometimes I feel like I was born in the wrong generation...that I should have been born into a time when men were real men and women were willing to follow their man and not have to be equal in every way. I believe the traditional male/female roles should compliment each other, not be a competition. I often find myself fantasizing about being that dashing villain who abducts the bratty, spoiled wench/daughter of a rich nobleman, she needing to be taught a lesson in humility and let loose the tightly repressed sexual desires that smolder deep within her bosom..Me needing to exercise my need for control only to fall madly in love with her..the sexual tension eventually giving way to uncontrolled and unbridled passion. Whew!! Maybe I should just try writing Harlequin romance novels...but I'd much rather live the fantasy, wouldn't you? Now…You on the other hand…you are a woman that has known for sometime that you are different from other women and you find yourself drawn to this and similar sites. You are strong-willed, independent, and a little bit on the bratty side but you also recognize that you have a submissive streak within you...or perhaps you have a very demanding, responsible lifestyle that requires you to be in control all of the time but deep down you want a man to take control over your mind, your body, and your heart...You are intelligent...you have a vivid imagination, you are creative, and possess an insatiable desire and need to explore the submissive lifestyle, aware that you are willing with the right person to explore the ability to push yourself beyond your known limits as you give yourself to Him. You find yourself thinking about how it would feel to have a stranger kidnap you and spirit you off to their lair and keep you as their prisoner...their love slave... doing erotic things to your body...or perhaps they break into your house and tie you spread-eagle to your bed, forcing themselves upon your helpless body. When your girlfriend asks you to join her for an activity and you say that you can't because you will be "all tied up," you smile wickedly to yourself, imagining yourself in such a plight. When you are watching a movie in which the heroine is a bound and gagged damsel-in-distress, your imagination starts to wander and you find yourself wishing you were in her place, longing for the hero to save you or better yet the villain to do his dastardly deeds to you instead. You wish you could talk about this to someone, but you don't want them to think there is something wrong with you. You love the look, smell, and feel of leather and other fetish attire...you have walked around adult stores stealing a glance or actually touching or trying on some of the equipment or clothing you have seen in the store; or perhaps you have seen things on the internet that excite you and you long to wear such outfits and have such equipment used on you, but you're unsure if you should actually act out such fantasies...or who would you allow to use such things on your body? You are drawn yet repulsed in some ways...and you are somewhat embarrassed by such wicked thoughts...but yet...the thoughts have always been there...isn't it time to take a chance?...a risk?...to step outside your comfort zone?...life is too short to not experience everything...there should be no regrets that we didn't try everything that we wanted to..whether secretly or openly....the key is to do it with someone that you have developed total trust in...the One...that person is out there... waiting for you, to help you realize your fantasies...to turn them into reality...you are limited only by your willingness to let yourself experience all that you have ever wanted...let me be the One...for you, my dear... PART TWO A Man looked back on his Life and he was proud of what he had accomplished so far...his two daughters were living their own lives...a grand daughter and a grandson...ah well, now he has his career... his house...his yard...his garden...his car (zoom-zoom)...the dog and the two cats keep him company ...he burns some meat on the grill and lifts a mug o' ale with his family and friends to celebrate life...he enjoys the outdoors when he camps and kayaks with his friends...his hot tub soothes his aching muscles at night...as a result of life's many adventures he has become: a loyal friend; an imaginative and creative lover; an adventurous and attentive companion; a hopeless romantic; a proud father and grandfather; an animal lover; an admirer of theater and the arts; and above all a person who likes to laugh and make other people laugh; but yet there is something very missing in his life...what he seeks is his other half...a free-spirited partner…the One...he imagines her laughter, her voice, her smile..her touch…her kiss…he longs for her to take her place at his side...he has searched relentlessly for her but he will not cease this seemingly endless quest...until he finds Her...and he will know her when he meets her...for she will be feminine, sophisticated, yet sometimes bawdy...her hair so soft on a shapely form...she is full of life, slightly mysterious, earthy, adventurous, vulnerable…curious, imaginative, sensual, and mischievous ...a femme fatale…a damsel-in-distress…one who loves to laugh...to celebrate life with an edge...she enjoys the outdoors...animals...music ...she is still a kid at heart, just like myself...she still likes to play in the snow and roll in the leaves...(no cigarette smokers please but a cigar is ok)...he longs for a woman to protect, to treasure…and to take care of him as well…...to enjoy and share in life with him in every way...this Man is real, and while he is no longer the young pup on the block, he has many things to offer a Woman that is willing to settle for a man that loves her...this is only part of my story...if you want to know more...just ask my dear, for my Life is an open book- with a new chapter just unfolding...and new pages being written every day….
NO CIGARETTE SMOKERS PLEASE! (CIGARS OK)
If you would like to IM contact me on Yahoo where I am known as alacsw. |
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