LifestyleFlaDom

To submit, to be controlled, to give your power...Is giving of the most precious gift of all...But to accept that gift, to use that gift for your betterment, to use it wisely and lovingly...Is the most supreme responsibility of all.
- Sir Wayne 11-20-2001

I am a 46 year old STRAIGHT Dominant male and have actively been involved in a 24/7 D/s relationship for 5+ years. I am what most call, a "natural" Dom. I prefer to be called, a loving Dom.

I am not cruel or abusive but, I am strict and require following precise protocol. I am always monogamous and will keep but only one submissive in my world.

My former submissive/wife and I have gone our separate ways.

I am seeking a willing, submissive female. Honesty is the brick-and-mortar with which valuable and strong relationships are built. All else is secondary to me. You must be confident enough in yourself to eventually, willingly surrender your power of choice to me, so that I may make well thought out decisions and choices for you, for our mutual benefit.

Your gift of submission will be used to fulfill your desires and strengthen your confidence, and self worth. Only with your complete and total honesty can I lead you to realize and achieve your innermost desires. Your honesty with me will lead to your complete trust in me, and mine in you. Your submission will be respected, revered and never abused or minimized.

I am in the North Tampa area. I own my own home, have a dedicated "play room/dungeon" set up in my house. I am financially stable but not wealthy. Not sugar daddy material - don't even think about it! I have a real job which I work five days a week and have had since I moved to the area five years ago. I am stable and not needy, certainly not trailer trash. I am told that I am an attractive man. I will say that I look 10 years younger than my chronological age. I am fit, clean and free of disease. I do not use drugs and will have a drink or two out socially. I never drink at home.

You must be self-reliant and capable of making your own choices but, deferring to me the final decision. You must be able to provide for yourself. I am NOT seeking a "needy" or greedy submissive. I am seeking a true partnership, drawing from each other the strengths and weaknesses that together will make us BOTH stronger and complete together. I will discover your true intentions within a short time. I am seeking a submissive that submits because she wants to, not because she has to, and has the ability to love and be loved in return.